Hi all.

First off, here's me: https://imgur.com/a/sub-searching-dom-Muyt6Gr
Secondly, I just want to make sure that before you read further, my location and stuff may change over the coming year, making it tougher to date. I'm between my MA and my PhD, and I may be moving to Europe within the next year or two. *Keep reading only if you are okay with this fact.*

Sooo... with that out of the way, I'll blabber a bit about myself. I'm 5'9, 155 pounds, and I have pretty long hair that I want to keep growing out further. I workout almost every day (running and pushups/situps). I know I look very serious and mean (very black cat energy), but I'm a huge, soft night owl who loves staying up late and sleeping in. :)

As for hobbies, I have a few I'm currently really into. My main two are writing (fiction, mainly, but I also enjoy academic writing like essays) and history (mainly medieval and ancient history). Other than that, I love riding my motorcycle, making maps, playing video games (ask me which ones!), and learning languages. Currently, I know Latin and Czech, and I just started German to get a head start before my PhD program starts. So, I'm very academically-minded, I take my knowledge seriously, and I *love* blabbering about writing or history, so that's one way to get me talking. Also a big fan of books, hiking, literature, coffee, and cats. I'm not very religious or political, although the history of religion (crusades especially) is quite interesting to me. Just thought I'd put that out there.

In terms of who I'm looking for, height nor age (within 21-45) doesn't really matter to me. I'd like someone who has an active-ish lifestyle (hiking is cool!). Also, and this is probably the biggest thing, I'd like someone who can be patient and understanding with me. I can be quite the nervous, anxious wreck about my academic work, and as a writer, I tend to have lots of self-doubt and criticisms aimed at myself. I'm also not very outwardly confident, as I'm more of the humble type. I'd love someone I can chat to about the above topics (mainly writing, history, coffee, and cats), or someone who at least asks questions and shows interest in what I have to say. Please don't contact me if you're only going to do one-word replies, it's tiring, or if you're one of those worshipping "goddess" types. Not my thing, sorry!

For kinks, we can definitely talk about it further in PMs, but I'm interested in leash/collar, petplay, cute nicknames, praise (probably #1), and dressing up (I have a few outfits I can show, too!). Spicier stuff will be shared over PMs. I'm ***NOT*** into anything that will hurt me, whether slapping, hitting, verbal abuse, or anything like that. I'm looking STRICTLY for a soft, caring dom.

If you read all of this, I really appreciate it! I hope we can form a long-lasting, serious, and intimate bond. :)