Thanks for checking out my ad. Please read to the end before reaching out!

Intro: I’m queer, Asian, curvy, with wavy/curly hair. I have a naturally motherly personality that is affectionate, protective, and warm. Though I’ve done a lot of the sadistic and intense play stereotypically related to femdom, I’m enjoying a more gentle approach these days. I still love extreme scenes and that can come into play at some point (or not), but currently looking for someone that can appreciate my softer side. Leaning more into Mommy dynamics has been very fun and affirming for me! Though I should say I’m not into ABDL (think more GFD). I’ve engaged with a wide range of kinks/play, so I’m sure most people will find something in common with me. Those close to me would describe my vibe as grounded, comforting, but a bit intimidating at first. Aesthetically, I've been told that I am elegant while being a little rough around the edges.

SFW about me: I work, go to school, and volunteer. Lucky to have a great community and support system. My current hobbies include weightlifting, photography, and baking. I'm not a big TV/movie watcher, but I'm always up for a good documentary or non-fiction read. My music taste is pretty varied so feel free to ask what I’m listening to these days! I’m drawn to all things that lead me to meaningful connection, beauty, pleasure, comfort & stability. I value open communication and tend to be very direct. Triple earth sign if you’re into astrology (if you're very into it, I'm sure you can guess which ones based off my ad).

What I’m looking for in a submissive: Someone who is respectful, sweet, and engaging. Open to any gender, with a preference for feminine people and energy. Love a cute/pretty face and partial to those with darker features and curly hair. I’d like you to have a generally stable life and take care of your mental and physical health. Preferred age range is 26-36, but I can be a little flexible if we have good chemistry. Someone who loves to make me smile and laugh. Absolutely no conservatives. Leftists to the front of the line.

What I want in a connection: Power exchange, obedience, control, and devotion. Balance of dynamic and companion. Someone willing to share photos, videos, and voice notes. Mature communication and honesty. Conversation that flows naturally and feels authentic and good to both parties. Obviously not interested in being anybody's kink dispenser.

I’m looking to engage online for now and my time zone is EST. For the right connection, I would like to meet in person eventually. If you are far but have the means to travel, feel free to shoot your shot. Just be mindful of time zone differences and have some self awareness when it comes to your capacity and availability.

Hoping to find someone that wants to establish a domme/sub relationship. In the long run, ideally, we would be friends with kink experiences in common. D/s is an important part of my life and I’d love to have lasting connections with similar interests. Outside of kink centered interactions I want to be supportive of each other’s lives and goals.

Are you my ideal submissive? If you want to introduce yourself, please provide as much detail as you’re comfortable sharing when sending a chat request. Tell me about yourself and what you are hoping to experience in a dynamic. What part of my ad made you want to reach out and why?

A photo is appreciated, but not required for first message. I will only reply to the messages that have a level of sincerity and effort in them. Use the phrase “adoption application” in your first message for verification that you read all the way to the end.

If you've been in these spaces for a minute, you understand how I'll likely be bombarded with lots of spam, low effort messages, and inconsiderate approaches that don't even fit my preferences. It may take a while to screen responses in addition to managing my day to day life, but if you sent a gem of a message and it's clear that potential is there, please be patient. If it is meant to be, I will find you.

If we are not we aren’t a match, I still appreciate you taking the time to read and wish you the best in finding someone who is an ideal fit for you 🖤 - Miss K