Abstract:

A vanilla-ish traditional relationship with reversed roles. You're the bread winner because you crushed it at work. You drive because you're confident behind the wheel. You fuck me because your fierce femininity is dominating. I make sure to keep a clean environment at home for you so that home is a place you can truly relax after work. I'll have dinner ready when you're out of the shower. And most importantly, I'll always be your biggest cheerleader so there's never any doubt how grateful I am.

The Pitch:

I know this is primarily a kink subreddit but I've always interpreted the term "Female-led Relationship" in the most literal sense. A traditionally male-led relationship doesnt require chastity or humiliation, so I figured why not apply the same principle here?

I know this may seem tame or boring but consider the implications. All those tendencies like controlling behaviour, micromanagement, being loud/outspoken that are true to who you are and are shunned in traditional male-led relationships would be genuinely welcomed in this one. It's an opportunity to feel truly in control and fulfilled without judgement or pushback.

For me, it's about following someone's lead who I truly trust and cherish. Between anxiety, adhd and overwhelming pressure I don't feel like myself when tasked with leading the relationship. I always end up overthinking every tiny detail or interaction to the point of mental exhaustion. A FLR like this takes the guess work out and puts a greater emphasis on consistent communication so I don't have to guess. I'm told exactly what's require and how you like it and my mission becomes clear. This in turn gives me the space to be present in the moment with you. It allows me to truly enjoy being the passenger/first mate while you take the drivers seat on our journey through life.

About Me:

5'9, somewhere between slim and athletic. pale skin, smooth chest, firm bubble butt and toned thighs. Brown eyes and short black hair. Undergraduate degree in Economics, currently working remote in Toronto. I have a wide range of hobbies from nerdy stuff like card games and european history, to adventurous hobbies such as mountain view travels and i still play hockey and baseball depending on the season.

About You:

Confident, driven, know what you want and won't settle for less. Prefer someone around my age or older, living in Canada (preferably a major city). I do not mind starting out online but I am hoping to find the real deal so in person eventually is a must. And it tends to be easier to coordinate something when a passport isn't required.

NSFW Stuff:

As mentioned I am mostly vanilla but I am extremely turned on by sex/intimacy where she takes charge. Examples off the top of my head: Amazon position, JOI, wearing submissive clothing, humping, nipple play etc. This isn't an exhaustive list and I'm more than willing to hear your about your interests and what turns you on.

Thanks for reading. If you're interested, send me a chat. I'd be happy to exchange pictures and go from there :)