First and foremost, being friends outside of the dynamic is as important to me as being compatible kink wise.

Part 1: about me vanilla

So welcome to this hopefully non awkward monstrosity! I’m 25, 6 feet tall (exactly and no its not a lie), brown hair, have more of a dad bod (trying to lose weight…just have a sweet tooth…don’t give me cookies…) and from western canada. I’m very much a go with the flow/happy go lucky person. Sometimes I prefer to be quiet and listen trying to ask insightful/thoughtful questions (which at any time if it’s too much just let me know). It’s also my way of getting to know people. I’m neurodivergent, but no it’s not my personality and am working on trying to improve that side of things.

In my free time I’m a gamer and would love it if you were too! Minecraft, skyrim, borderlands 2, COD zombies and rocket league are in my current rotation. I’m a music lover as well and will be happy to spam song suggestions with anything from hardstyle, rap, to even some classical/instrumental songs as well. I have a picky, but eclectic taste. Also am someone who loves animals and if you have pets, I might need pics!

I will say i might be an open book and can overshare at times, but will take some time before I flip through all the chapters with you. Just know, if/when you’d like to share, nothing phases me and I won’t judge.

Warning: may or may not be a little impulsive. Not looking for someone to keep me in check, just can get overexcited with things, eager and rush a little so just a heads up. If I’m going too fast, feel free to let me know and I won’t love bomb you or anything don’t worry! I also have a dry sense of humour and make a lot of bad puns/jokes so good luck?😂

Part 2: What I hope to find vanilla

What I’m hoping to find amongst the trees is someone who’s patient, funny, talks my head off, and genuine. Also an animal lover, communicative (very important to me), honest, open minded and respectful of boundaries. A bonus if you like to write!

I can be clingy, and would like someone who i can at least text frequently throughout the week and maybe have video/voice calls with? When you’re comfortable!

Part 3: kink side/nitty gritty

I’m not looking for a 24/7 mommy or expect you to be. But would like to have some playtime throughout the week if that’s okay? And i mean sfw/nsfw. For me being little is a kink, but I do often have fantasies of being little and comforted and taken care of. I like pretty much everything within the abdl umbrella (except for scat) which is something I heavily enjoy. So it may be a dealbreaker if you’re not sorry. I also love to roleplay with text roleplays. Partly because there’s things I know I’ll never be able to realistically do/try and because I enjoy world building and imagining fantasy worlds.

Part 4: nsfw tidbit

I am a pretty sexual person…exhibition being one of my favourite things. Reciprocation is not a requirement, but not discouraged (again when/if you’re comfortable). So outside of text roleplays, video calls would be a hope…i think the rest we can maybe discuss later on?