Hello everyone, My name is Jia I am 22 years old. I thought reddit might be the good place to find someone into the same dynamic without people finding it toxic or abusive.

ABOUT ME:

I am 22 years old, I am half korean/american ( i am not into race play) I am in nursing school right now I have 2 years left. physically I am 5ft7 I am also fit/skinny with pretty face. for my hobbies i enjoy watching kdrama/movies and finding good movies is my favorite things of all times. I also like listening to true crime podcast my favorite one is rotten mango. I also like doing skincare routine and doing my makeup, spending time with friends and family. I find myself being deeply into this type of dynamic when I had my first boyfriend who was 5 years older than me but he would constantly worship me telling me how lucky he got to be with me. He was a total simp for me and would do anything for me. Since then I had some vanilla/normal relationship but it never feel like the type of relationship I would enjoy. So I am expecting from you to be a complete simp for me and treat me like a princess.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR? I want a long term relationship with a good connection/trust in each other. I know that this type of ynamic require a lot of trust and communication and we will have to do much I am not interested in polygamous relationship I only want one loyal devoted partner. * Physically i don't have much preferences just be taller then me and i don't think it could be hard don't really care much if you are muscular or not. * For my age range i prefer guys older than me ( so between 24 to 40 years old) I love the fact that a guy older than me is a total simp for me I think it's super fun. * I don't want married guy as i said earlier i want something monogamous * I don't want bratty sub or switch I am totally domme and I am not looking for a switch. Someone who know his place and who he belong to. I am much more into the controlling dynamic where i can control pretty much aspects of your life (you have to install apps control, monitering your electronic devices, I will want to know where you are all the time, people you are talking to, and you have to ask permission for all basic things, I will control your finances and many others things but all of that requires a lot of trusts we can discuss about that later on * But I also have some others kinks which are chastity/edging, orgasms control, JOI. As you guessed your sexual life would also be controlled by me and only me. I am also into TPE, CNC. If we decide to start something you will have a list of rules you have to read and agree to. I can be really demanding, bossy and manipulative other people might see it as toxic and abusive but you and me are not other like other people. I want you to devote your entirely life and be completely obsessed by me. * For my limits I am not into extreme pain, blood, scat. Beside all of this side of me I am also very caring and nurturing for the right person, I would want to spend time with you and learn about your hobbies. I want to be the first person you will reach out if you are not doing okay and i will stay on the phone with you as long as you need me. I also enjoy watching movie or playing together with my sub. BEFORE TEXTING ME * Make sure that you are serious and really ready for this type of lifestyle * Make sure to write a good text to introduce yourself ( I won’t respond to low effort messages) * Make sure our kinks align * Make sure to write your age, location, occupation, kinks, and why you want this type of relationship.