Hi again 😌 I’m a 24 year old black queer creative and a (fairly new) domme from the west coast. Since I started dating I noticed that what I liked slightly differed from my peers. I had a hard time expressing my wants/ kinks to past partners though and thought that I could live without, which ended up not working out as we can see lol.

As I get older I understand what I want is to be in a relationship where we’re both sexually gratified and enjoy femdom. But I also need and deserve something substantial outside of kink and I’m determined to make it so, no matter how long it takes.

That being said what I want to build trust first and foremost. Being friends with your partner is important to me and I’d love to get to know you/ your interests before diving into sex/ kink. Ideally we’d start and stay online while getting to know each other then meet up eventually further down the line. Though I don’t have a preference on race/ body type/ gender I know what I like physically so SFW face pic as soon as you’re able/ comfortable is appreciated and helpful in the longrun! Age-wise I’m looking for a sub 22-40 but if you're outside of these parimeters feel free to plead your case lol

Outside of kink I love to create and I mesh well with other creatives. I also love to read (mostly fiction) and love vintage wares/ clothes, watching period pieces, skateboarding and lots more. I want to be able to have interesting and intelligent conversations with my partner and need someone who has interests of their own as well! Physically I'm about 5'4, smaller build, I have piercings and tattoo's (and plan on getting more) and would describe myself as conventially attrative

Now let’s get into the nitty gritty and talk about what I’m into/ looking for kink wise:

I’m more of a gentle dom/ mommydom adjacent. I’m interested in my pleasure taking priority, I like doing things at my pace and need someone who defers to me as well. I also love taking the time to tease my partners/ make them feel as good as I do, I would say when I'm really comfortable with a partner teasing is one of my love languages. I love facesitting, anything worship related really. French kissing is another favorite of mine. Def have more but we can talk more about that later. In a sub I'm again looking for someone who defers to my wants and needs and enjoys things going my way, they are monogomous, have goals, and above all else take care of themselves both physically and mentally (health is wealth or whtevr lol :)

Some of my LIMITS include: race play, POLYAMORY, fecal play, blood, water sports, blackmail (definitely more but these are off the top of my head)

Anyways thanks for reading this far, when responding please don't send just a "hey" because you will be ingnored, instead please include, your age, a SFW picture if you're able, your favorite pastime, and what you're looking for in femdom :)