Hi there, I'm a 26 year old guy from northern Germany. Somewhere between slender and sporty. Having discovered my interest for a Gentle Domme/Soft Sub dynamic some time ago, I'm looking for someone to finally experience it with. Maybe that person is you? I am looking for a woman preferably at least 24, with the upper end of the spectrum maybe at 55. If you are younger then that, we have to see if you can get me in the right head space. You should be from Hamburg or within reasonable distance, since in person meetings or at least the option to, are preferred. For a real connection and trust, long-term connections would be the ideal.

Personalitywise, I am looking for a caring woman that likes to cherish her partner and in return likes to be adored for it. I like for you to take the lead and make decisions for us, though I am not a pushover, meaning I have opinions and will make them heard if I feel the need to. I don't smoke and would prefer if you wouldn't either. I enjoy reading and movies (preferably Fantasy and SciFi, I can be a bit of a geek), politics (I consider myself fairly left leaning), sports and walks (mostly with my dog). I speak German and English, whatever you prefer. Though German is my native language, so please excuse any mistakes I make in English.

For the NSFW section: I love to kiss and enjoy cuddling (not starting of very spicy, I guess? But we are getting there, no worries). I also really enjoy giving pleasure, so fingering, oral or facesitting are definitely on the table.... and a lot more depending on what you like. Bondage is something I am currently learning a lot about, so if you have practical experience, that would be great. Preferably as a bunny (I think thats the correct word?) but I might also tie you up once in a while if you let me.

My ass is also a very pleasurable zone to me and I really enjoy having it played with: Plugs, fingers, rimming or a strap-on, there are many possibilities. Just take it slow, for the beginning.

If our chemistry is right, I also might like to call you Mommy. This is more likely if you are at least a few years older than me though. It just wouldn't feel right with some people, which is not a problem, just how it is. Being called baby boy, good boy etc. might also appeal to me.

This is of course not a list of requirements, just some things I (might) enjoy. So don't feel like it we wouldn't get along just because you don't like 1 or 2 of these. There are also many more things I would like to try or be open to, especially if you enjoy them. So be open about what you like to ;)

Unless of course it is on my (probably incomplete) list of No Gos: Scat, Blood, Needleplay, anything illegal, strong pain, permanent marks/changes. Humiliation and chastity also don't appeal to me.

If you are interested or have any questions, send me a message. I would love to hear from you.

Edit: Please include your favorite animal in the first message, so I know that you at least read this post. After the first few messages, this does unfortunally seem necessary.