Brief Summary

Hi, thanks for taking the time to check out my post! Sorry for the long length, here’s a quick summary to get the basics out of the way. I’m an inexperienced 22 year old cis man from NJ looking to build a monogamous relationship with a dominant (or dom-leaning switch) cis woman or non-binary person who was assigned female at birth, who is between between 18 and 35 (ideally 20-30), and is based in or around NJ. Experience doesn’t matter.

About Me

I’m 5’7", 130 lbs, and have blue eyes (SFW picture here, no face until verification, sorry :( ). I’d describe myself as affectionate, honest, sensitive, caring, open-minded, attentive, and have a good sense of humor (I laugh at everything, and I’m kinda goofy). I’m going into my 4th year of my computer science major and in my free time I like to spend time with friends, my dog, and my cat, play video games, watch youtube or shows, play guitar, do yoga, etc. Environmentalism, human rights, feminism, and adjacent causes are important to me. I’m plant-based and have a passion for animal welfare and nature. My primary love languages are quality time and physical touch, but I value them all! I also value open and frequent communication. I don’t smoke, and I’m DDF aside from drinking occasionally and using marijuana rarely. I’m inexperienced in D/s relationships, but I’m capable and willing to learn. In the meantime, I’ve been doing research myself to prepare to support my partner in a dynamic!

What I'm Looking For

I’m looking for a relationship above all (friends first is ideal) with kink as the cherry on top. ISO a connection with someone whom I can trust and be vulnerable with, hopefully become best friends with, and eventually be comfortable submitting to and worshipping (flaws and all!). Starting off online is fine, but I'd like things to eventually move to irl. I'm hoping for a caring, kind, assertive, and potentially outgoing (it's okay if not, I'm just shy) partner who shares some of my values/politics and has an average, curvy, athletic, or muscular body type (no shame to anyone else! ). In terms of what dynamic I'm seeking, I think I'd like a few dynamics (hopefully some combination of all or multiple), being FLR, “D/s lovers,” Cg/l, bondage, and training.

NSFW and Dynamic

Not to say I would be opposed to rougher stuff now and then, but I prefer more sensual and emotionally focused dom/dommes, like gentle femdom or mommy dom/CG. Ideally, the dynamic wouldn't just be stuff in the bedroom, but a key part of our lives too (vanilla stuff included as well). Physical affection, emotional affection, and praise are my absolute favorite things; However, my focus is to please my partner and make them feel special and understood, and hope that they’d be able to do the same for me! I can cook and clean, and I’d like to take care of and pamper them. I would hope to be guided, disciplined/punished, and directed, have some decisions made for me, be cared for and pampered as well, and of course, be the little spoon :3 My hard limits include scat, cuckolding, and extreme violence/pain/degredation. Also no findom. My kinks are open to change, even some limits (list here). A few favorite interests would be praise, body worship, face-sitting, ANR, collaring, Md/lb, CNC, rope play, and pet play, though they are not required. I'm also open to switching if that’s ever desired, but I'm happiest with being completely submissive.

If any of this has interested you and you'd like to chat, please dm me a bit about yourself, your looks (or picture), and what you look for in a friend/partner. I’d love to get to know you and I will try to respond asap, at most within a few hours! I’d prefer verification after some chatting so that we know we click first.

I look forward to meeting you! :)