hey y’all! i’ve posted many times here before, with no success unfortunately :( i’m typing out this post thoroughly and will just leave it up on my profile!

as always, my disclaimer. i am not looking for a man. this includes trans men. i’m homoflexible, and the only man i am attracted to is my partner. you’re not the exception. i am not looking for a MF couple either. if you are female with a male partner who wouldn’t be involved in the slightest, maybe.

who am i? i’m abby, a 21 year old college student studying biology. i am AFAB and go by she/her. i currently am a full time student with a part time job, so i’m a busy bee! some of my favorite hobbies/interests include classical music, rock climbing, dance (especially collegiate), and cheese (i LOVE cheese!) i also love to watch tv and relax- my favorites currently are SVU, monk, and the IT crowd. i’m in a long term, long distance relationship with my male partner, who is fully aware and supportive of me posting here :) my sense of humor can best be described as shitpost style humor with a little bit of dark humor. i’m also learning german! i am a huge animal lover, with 3 dogs and 4 cats. my favorite activity is just cuddling during a rainy day. i also write scripts for voice acting. fun fact about me, i have a vendetta against Bach. i have an anxious attachment style so please do not message me if this triggers you.

what i’m looking for? the big points: - someone who understands that submission is a gift. who respects me as my own person but cares for me as their own. - i’m a little clingy. i like to message a lot throughout the day. of course i know people have lives, but if i get attached to you, i’ll get really anxious if i don’t hear from you for a day. - please be willing to meet within a month-ish. my partner lives in europe. touch is my love language and i crave cuddles and comforting touch. i don’t have a car, and i live with my dad but i would be happy to host, either at my place or a hotel/airbnb. within driving distance is a HUGE plus! - someone who hopefully understands chronic illness, and who knows that my “best” will vary from day to day. and in that regard, is trauma informed. my biological mother is abusive, and i’m left with complex PTSD - someone to check in with me once or twice during the day, to make sure i’m drinking enough, getting my to-dos done. - okay with venting. i’m in therapy (and medicated), but sometimes i just want someone to see me…to just let me feel what i feel and hold me through it. i’m working on myself in therapy and have come a long way, but i can’t be happy all the time. - definitely looking for a sexual aspect! my kinks and limits are listed below - i am like 95% submissive sexually, but i may be able to switch for the right person :) - i age regress. it is ESSENTIAL you understand the difference between mommy domming and caregiving. when i am truly regressed, there’s to be NOTHING sexual, as my little is not capable of consenting. my little is around 4-6 years old. okay, so what’s in it for me? - one of my favorite ways to show affection is through small handmade things. examples may include flowers, a handwritten note, homecooked meal, etc. - once i find the right person, i submit fully to you. this doesn’t mean you just take care of me 24/7. as my mommy, you would also get my love, attention, and care. i’m very in tune to changes in people’s emotions as well.

the sexual stuff now :) - my main kinks: soft medplay, collaring, tickling, light bondage, spread eagle, teasing, sensation play, ice play, spanking, roleplay, denial/edging, praise, begging, bratting (these are not all, just my main ones!) - my HARD limits: FEET, anything physically violent (this includes breathplay, choking, gagging, etc), scat, gore, piss, blood, pain, beast, diapers - things i’m not experienced in but want to be (gently and slowly) trained in: anal, pussy penetrating (namely because i have tight muscles that can cause pain), overstimulation

i think this covers all the main stuff. hoping to meet some of you and finally find my success story!