alright, this is the last time I'm gonna put myself out there, because so many people have left me disappointed. this is an abridged version. for a full idea of what I'm looking for, dm me :) I have a google doc with everything typed out.
Let's get the dealbreakers out of the way first, then get to the fun stuff
* NO MEN! this includes trans men. females (including trans females) and femme presenting enbies are welcome. if you are a man, you will be blocked
* you will be asked to provide verification. I will as well. this is non negotiable. would prefer to see your face, but won't require it at first
* MUST be okay with me being ENM. I have a partner of 2.5 years (who consents to this). I will not break up with him for you.
* my HARD limits (soft limits can be negotiated) - scat, blood/knife play/needles, feet, breathplay/choking, diapers, intox, cum eating, gore, puke, findom
about you:
* you like a little clingy. someone who is excited to receive your messages. you like to get good morning and good night messages. you like to check in throughout the day
* you message consistently. I'm not talking about 24/7 back and forth - you have a life and so do i. however, I get anxious when I go hours and hours without having at least a check in with people I care about.
* a soft domme and trauma informed. you respect consent above everything else.
* you would be willing (at some point) to meet up. my partner and I are long-distance, and unfortunately touch is my love language
* you enjoy having a task/punishment/reward system
* when you're comfortable, ability to have audio and eventually video calls.
* a good sense of humor. I have dark humor. you're good at keeping conversations going
* kinky. you like to play (especially roleplay)
* you don't mind (preferably enjoy) a little bit of playful brattiness)
* you sometimes (not all the time) enjoy giving up control (or LETTING me have control) - I do wish I could play with my mommy and call her a good, sweet girl
about me:
* college student studying biology
* I have a lot of trauma, so im looking for someone gentle with me
* I have a lot of love to give for the right person
* interests include classical music, rock climbing, and general laughter
* I have chronic illness, please be mindful of that
* I love being called pet names. allll the pet names
if this sounds like you, please dm me! please note, due to the amount of people who have struck out, if you don't put \*some\* effort into your message, it will likely be ignored. I would love to see a saw picture in your initial message, but not putting one doesn't mean I will ignore you.