i apologize in advance for the length of this post, i find it’s best to get all information out there :)

General Info {} 21 years old, she/her BBW located in DMV region only open to female/NB domme/caregivers Looking for irl dynamics. Ideally we would talk for a week or two, have a few video calls, then meet ideal age: 26-40, but open to younger

you will be asked for verification before moving to another platform. this does not have to include face and i will verify as well.

What I’m looking for {} I’m looking into kink as a way to find deeper healing from my traumatic childhood. I crave a caregiver/mommy style dynamic. Heavier on the caregiving part. I want gentle coaxing, and understanding. Comforting. Someone to dote on me and help me feel loved. I want to have some decisions taken from me so my mind can breathe a little. I have some mental health issues (currently very well controlled, but still unpleasant at times) and chronic illness, so I would love to be taken care of when i’m ill. Lots of reassurance. Over time, I would like you to be able to learn my patterns to help me through difficult times. I would like to be able to call you mommy, and it makes me feel safe when you occasionally refer to yourself as such. Someone to generally vent to (within your own boundaries regarding topics). I would love to be collared (i would need to be able to remove the collar when given permission). Check ins to make sure i’m getting everything done and a punishment/reward system. I have a bit of a bratty streak.

kinks {} soft medical play (for example, you give me an “exam” to make sure nothing physical is causing me to be a brat), tickling, voices, light bondage (especially blindfolded), edging (i have never had the discipline to edge myself), ice cube play, denial, overstim (maximum 4 orgasms), impact play that does not leave marks (spanking/pussy slapping mainly), dirty talk (and lots of it), encouragement, toys (i have a bluetooth clit sucker and vibe), roleplay (especially abduction- being “saved” from a bad environment), massage, face sitting (you sit on me), strap (refer to above section about sex), legs being held open, begging, nipple play, collaring (especially being made to look at you via the collar), cunnilingus, MILD degradation, electric play, hypnosis, wax play , JOI, sensation play, sounding, teasing, bratting

limits {} CNC (to a point - basically my safe word MUST be respected at ALL times - i do enjoy sometimes struggling against punishment), anal (can be discussed as there is wiggle room), scat, watersports, beastiality, choking/gagging/breathplay, feet, blood, pain, needles, cum eating, bathroom control, any torture, impact play that leaves marks, heavy degradation (can discuss details), diapers, double penetration, intoxication

please pm if interested :)