I'm looking for my special sub both online and locally, but I'm 99.9% sure no one local is browsing this subreddit 😁 

I'm a 31 year old Asian woman and a fairly new Domme. I train 3 times a week, physical and mental health are important to me.

I like spending time with my family. I also enjoy stand up comedy and podcasts by comedians (e.g. Bad friends, Tim Dillon, Anniewood etc). A special shoutout to Katt Williams 😁 I love visiting art galleries and fine art in general. I value introspection and independent thought.

Chatting online isn't always easy but I'm looking for someone who'd be willing to chat on a consistent basis and get to know each other beyond the sexual D/s stuff. Eventually I'd like to meet my special boy/girl in person, if the connection is there :) 

Who I'm looking for:

I want a sub who's taken a lot of time to contemplate why he/she is a sub and who is aware that Femdom can be infested with covert misogynists masquerading as subs. I want a sub who will actively defend me in public and who I will actively defend in public as well.

I want a sub who wants to share their interests with me, a sub who wants to share a funny video they saw, a sub who is excited to show me their new favorite song, a sub who wants to share their joyful moments with me.

I also want a sub who truly wants to follow my lead. Not just doing chores in a half assed way while horny, but truly trusting me to make good decisions for both of us. Someone who is actually interested in what I have to say. Someone who is curious about my interests and actually wants to partake in my activities.

I want a sub who sees me as a human being first and a Domme second. I want a sub who is proactive at doing things for me and asking me questions, instead of me constantly reminding them to do something.

ATTN:

I'm bisexual so I'm looking for both female and male subs.

My age range is someone my age preferably but from 27 to 37. Feel free to include some SFW pics of yourself, and I'll be willing to do the same.

I'm not going to list any kinks actually and I will not respond to messages listing kinks right away.

Neither will I respond to obvious copy and paste messages listing your interests which are completely unrelated to my post.

One sentence horny messages using titles/honorifics will be ignored too.

I'm not a pro Domme, this is a lifestyle and I'd like to meet my special sub one day.