I know you exist somewhere, our paths simply have to cross, and I have been looking for you for a while now

First of all, thank you for taking the time to read all this, there is so many message like mine here,so I'm really grateful that you take the time

Yes I am a switch / sub men seeking a dom women to serve, but that's not what I'm looking for above all. I really want to meet someone with whom I can discuss everything from day to day stuff to most kinky thoughts. I'm not looking for kink dispenser. I'm definitely not closed to the idea to meet IRL but let's start here in the virtual world.

I want to develop a bond with you. I want to wake up in the morning and quickly pick up my phone to see if you haven't written me something, even if it's just a "good morning & have a great day!". I want to be able to share moments of life with you. but I hope more than anything that you can also do the same thing towards me, and don't keep everything secret.(but I think I can live with that a little)

I'm a Switch but with a very strong lean towards submissive, but I can also be very bratty on occasion. In my reality, I am an authority figure, I'm the one who leads and makes the decisions. It's one of the reason why I would really like you to be a strong woman who knows what she wants and who could stand up to me in our little games. That you don't change your mind / decision if I "complain or argue a little". I already had a similar experience with a lady who kept changing her decision out of insecurity if I challenged her a little and I was feeling bad after knowing that she was questioning herself, even after discussing together about this numerous time

I seek not just a physical connection, but an emotional bond built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Together, I want us to explore the depths of our desires and fantasies, pushing boundaries. It's a two-way thing no matter all we see it, it's as much important for you that it's important for me. Even in the sub role I want to make sure that you are also happy with everything. I'm not looking for a pro dom, in fact I don't even care if you don't have any experience in this lifestyle let's do it together.

I am always very serious in my approach, but I am also aware that certain factors may not work for you, and because in a virtual relationship like this one, you can only rely on honesty. No point of lying and creating a character because you will find out eventually and probably it would destroy everything we've built so far

So, i'm a men in his late 40's from Montreal Canada. Speak French and English, I'm 5'8 blonde hair blue eyes with a dad bod body 😉 Definitely not the super muscular body type of guy if you are into super fit/muscular type of guy. I don't mind sharing pictures but don't except magic mike on them 😊 but this will not happen immediately. I want us to establish mutual trust before exchanging.

For me, being sexy is not a look, a style or a size it's a personality, everybody is sexy and beautiful.. I'll never ask or put any kind of pressure on you for a picture, a voice note, or video of some sorts. I just hope that one day you will feel confident enough to share something with me.

now the "obligatory part" of all these kind of messages. yes I have limits, yes I have preferences for example; I'm a toy junky 😊, I have lots of them. I have almost all lovense toy available and being controlled by someone is on the top of my list. I'm also really into chastity control, bondage, joi and cei, orgasm control and denial ruined, edging, cbt, roleplay, sexting and probably some stuff that I don't even think about right now. Nothing Blood/urine/feces illegal, too extreme, no violence, permanent stuff or underage play.

I know that you exist, that you are here somewhere. Now I just hope something did attract your attention and that you will contact me to say hi!

I apologize for my English, it's not my first language, I speak French usually. You can reach me out on almost every platform using Lexter76