Please remember that I am a person and when messaging me, do not automatically jump into calling me your Mommy or Domme. I don't know you, I haven't agreed to be that for you. Further, anyone who doesn't provide in their opening message what I mention at the end of my post, does not fit my 'what I'm looking for', or displays an obvious lack of having not read my post will be ignored. <3

What I’m Looking For: A vanilla relationship (Monogamous) consisting of equals, married with a slightly more complex, ‘salty-and-sweet’-style, D/s-focused kink dynamic that mimics MD/lg pairings (sans the ageplay/regression). If we’re a great fit for each other, I’m open to relocation, hopefully you are too, as I don’t plan to stay where I am that long so I’ll be relocating regardless; but I don’t expect that to happen until it’s right and logistically possible.

What I’m NOT Looking For: To give up my enjoyment of being fingered or pegged (I will never ask you to top), to have my emotional needs ignored, Master-Slave vibes, ageplay/age regression, littles/middles, or TPE; I don’t want to run your entire life, be your parent, be in charge of or control you outside of the dynamic, or make all of the decisions in the relationship just because I’m your Domme.

My Style of Domme: You’ll have your sweet and loving Mommy Domme, the one who loves to praise, nurture, instruct, and build you up. But that same Mommy also has a firm hand, and knows that sometimes to teach and bring out the best in her sweet submissive, that they must be broken down and built back up again. Humiliation, Degradation, and the like are used to emphasis character flaws and weak spots, but this is never done for cruelty’s sake; no, Mommy wants her sweet girl to know where she’s weak, where she’s wanting, to show her how she can be even better, and even sweeter for her Mommy. Discipline, however, is where that ‘firmness’ blurs into something just south of sadism–where the CNC and more…physically demanding kinks come into play. Still, Mommy knows that a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down and always finds ways of turning what seems to be harsh discipline into something her submissive never knew she needed…craved. Unlocking depravity, turning her deliciously darling charge into something primal and voracious, if only for a moment, just to show her the maddening depths of her own unrealized potential. We all need someone to hold up mirrors for us to see who we really are at times, and If I were your Mommy Domme, that is one of the things I would be most happy to do for you.

Note: Due to the inclusion of CNC, humiliation, and degradation kinks, and everything in that realm, please understand that I am not interested in removing your autonomy/forgoing consent, forgetting the person behind the kink, eschewing aftercare, or breaking your heart. I will take and break as much as you ask me to/allow me to when we discuss things in the beginning and I will never stray from that path. That said, the kinks mentioned above are of importance to me, so if our interests and needs don’t align in that way, I won’t be the right Mommy Domme for you.

Fine Print for the Girl Behind the Mommy: Divorced, in therapy and on meds for my mental health, single, monogamous, dog mom, childfree (and soon-to-be-sterile), in-between careers (changing careers following my sabbatical), and STD-free (tested 1/30). I've been on HRT for 5 years and am non-op. I'm also a lesbian. Here are some photos of me in lieu of more words. And here is more about me as a person.

About You: It’s taken me years to figure out what I want, need, and prefer, and now that I know, I’m comfortable sticking to them.

• CIS
• Single
• Monogamous
• 5’4” or below
• Build: Petite; slender, fit, or curvy
• Age: 21-34
• Looking for long-term and IRL; online/LDR fine to start, but meeting up in person and visits when ready would be nice (when logistically sound)
• Knows what she wants and needs and knows how to communicate both in a healthy, effective way
• Submissive-Switch, or submissives interested in and/or comfortable with penetrating (but not topping)
• Understands that while this may resemble a slightly more charged MD/lg dynamic, that there is no ageplay/regression involved, and that I am not seeking submissives who identify as ‘littles’ or ‘middles’
• Able to send pictures (selfie and full-body at minimum) in opening message
• Capable of and willing to do voice calls early, and video calls eventually/when ready
• Currently in or interested in therapy (self)
• Would describe yourself as wild, nasty, and a total freak–or know it’s there beneath the surface just waiting to be brought out by the right Domme
• Non-smoker (cigarettes) and not a heavy/daily drinker (alcohol)
• Childfree

My Primary Kinks: * CNC (specifically rape, sleep play, and drugs/alcohol) * Humiliation/ Degradation * Ropes & Restraints (I prefer rope, or handcuffs, for restraints; and spreader bars are always welcome) * D/s * Ass play * Breeding/Impregnation * Guided & Mutual Masturbation * Stretching/Training (Ass or Vaginal) * Discipline * Pegging * Fingering * Cock & Pussy Worship * Cum Play * Sensation Play * Breath Play * Praise * Edging * Throat Training

Kinks I’d Be Interested in Exploring: Forced Orgasm/ Control/ Denial, Watersports, Impact, Exhibition, Primal, Pussy Slapping/Torture, Incest

Hard-pass-hard-no Kinks: Scat/Vomit/Blood, Ageplay, Age Regression, Anything involving furries or animals, Littles/Middles, ABDL, Feet

When you message me, please include, at bare minimum (along with a selfie and full-body picture), your name, age, location, your primary kinks/interests–and where we align–, a little about yourself (the person) & about your submissive side, and why you think we could have a fun, rewarding, and sexually satisfying dynamic together.