Hello , I'm a 21 yo sub from India looking for my forver person. I seek an FLR with dynamics involving Tpe , MdLb , RR and cuckolding. Location really isn't an issue since I'd relocate if we hit it off , tho it'd most likely start off online.
Me
Physically I'm 5'8 and skinny with a slight tummy bulge. I have a few scar marks from surgeries that I've had in the past. Don't wanna get into too detail but I have some health issues that affect how resilient my body is. I don't mind sending a photo after we chat for a while if it's reciprocated.
Some of my interests include video games, philosophy, music, art , animations , Photography, etc. Apart from those things I enjoy a wide array of multiple different niche things as well. The first two are my biggest ones however.
I enjoy thinking about life , philosophising , analysing situations , delving into psychonalysis, questioning things , coming up with theories , realising limiting perceptions and so on. Currently I have a relatively postmodernistic outlook with a liking towards Lacanian-zizekian ideas and yin-yang. Currently I'm majoring sociology in college.
While approaching people and situations, I tend to be understanding , logical and try to navigate through different perspectives. I'm a good listener , instead of shouting and imposing my ideas , I listen and try to understand the situation from the lens of the person. I am self aware and communicate very well.
I do ,however, have issues with self worth and often times I worry unnecessarily about things and are scared of things. I also judge myself a lot and question my sense of morality.
Dynamics
I'm seeking a dynamic where I want my partner to be the dominant and masculine one since I'm more feminine and submissive. I want my partner to be protective and possesive of me. I'd want her to feel like the roof over my head sheltering me from this harsh world. She'd be loving and understanding yet strict when needed .
I'm searching for a Tpe. I find aspects related to micromanagement very wholesome and I'd want my partner to do that to me. She'd have the final say in matters even tho my voice will be taken into consideration. She'd direct and control my actions and my life. I'd want her to lead and I would follow and obey. Ofc some boundaries will still exist.
Some cute MdLb things I want would be like me being the smol spoon , sitting in her lap , her giving me reassurance when I need it, hugging, cuddling, headpats, forehead kissing , making me feel loved and taken care of, etc.
In terms of kinks and sexual aspects,I have lots. Some of them would be chastity, cuckolding , feetplay, ownership, petplay, feminization, anr/abf , watersports, etc. Some of my limits are public play, sounding, blood , anything permanently damaging or extremely painful, etc.
As a sub I'm service oriented and I like the feeling of making my partner feel fulfilled . For example baking for her or preparing a bath or massaging her , knitting for her, etc. It involves giving a lot of love to my partner and seeing her being happy and content . There are also devotional and ownership related aspects that tie into the same for me. I am very obedient and submissive. I'm also very clingy and eager to do things for my partner.
When I feel a sense of safety and acceptance from my partner, I feel empowered. Usually I'm doing things just for the sake of doing things , I don't feel very safe and I lack a sense of reason and purpose to go on . But when I'm in an environment where I'm allowed to feel safe , protected , taken care of and accepted I feel like I could do anything and take whatever the world throws at me. This is what my subspace looks like.
I understand what I'm seeking requires emotional maturity and commitment towards understanding one another. Likewise building trust and finding vulnerability with one another is very important.
You
Personalitywise I want someone who is understanding, open to ideas , non judgemental, empathetic and can communicate well.
I'm open to ages from 18 to 25 from anywhere across the world.
I'm looking for someone who can lead the relationship , someone who understands what leadership entails. Ofc no one's perfect but I'd expect you to have a general understanding of what it's like.
I want my partner to be a good listener . In order to find vulnerability and build trust with one another it's necessary to listen to each other. Likewise emotional maturity is very important.
I'm looking for someone who thinks about life often and enjoys intellectual ventures into Philosophical areas , I'll want to discuss my ideas and stuff with her and would like for her to be interested and participate.
Would be cool if you enjoy video games tho it's not necessary.
In terms of looks I have a preference towards slim and average body types.
Some things that I dislike are : not trying to see multiple sides to things , not being open or understanding, being unable to communicate consistently, etc. Ofc I realise that nobody is perfect but on a general level I really value consistent communication and openess and understanding.
End note
That's about it. Send me a chat request if you're interested and ask away if you have any questions. I'd like to move to discord if we do seem to vibe.
Also, you don't need to have every kink that I have or want every aspect that I do. Do tell me your expectations and needs at the start.
Oh and if you do decide to text me , tell me your views about antinatalism . We could discuss about it. Also do give a bit introductory info about you and tell me what attracted you to my post and why did you decide to text me.
Thanks for reading. Hoping to hear from you.
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