So, thought I would give this another go as haven’t had much luck responding to adverts from dommes over the last few years. Have mostly had no response or occasional responses that quickly turn into requests for money. And financial domination is not something that interests me.
So, if not money, what can I offer? Well, loyalty, obedience and an open mind. But above all, an offer of giving up control to you, to put my feelings, wants and desires behind yours. To try to give you pleasure through my submission. To do what you say, when you say it (within limits, of course). To hope that you would feel excited by that, turned on, fulfilled.
You might be starting out in domination, or harbouring some dominant feelings, or just wanting to own a sub of your own. Maybe we can learn the dynamic together?
Or you might be experienced but wanting to try out some new or different ideas, or just simply wanting someone else to obey your commands.
I am pretty inexperienced so you would probably need to be more on the gentle domme end of the spectrum! As I said, I am not interested in findom, I would rather find someone who has a genuine interest in the lifestyle and wants to get her pleasure from my submission, rather than just getting a monetary gain. Your interests, feelings, wants, desires are obviously the most important thing here, but you also might like to know what kind of things excite me most, perhaps?
Looking at my kinks, I tend to like things like tease and denial, edging, ruining, cei, chastity. And things like hidden marks of ownership , forced hidden feminisation, tasks and submission. I tend to work better with tasks and reports, though real time chats can be mind blowing too. Micro management has always interested.
Limits are key, and it is here that you will probably stop reading and move on to something more exciting and extreme. I am married, and however much I might like the idea of being someone’s plaything, that marriage is more important to me than my feelings and desires. So, I can’t do anything that would affect my wife or my marriage. Next up is my inexperience. So, although I might want to please you by doing something, if I haven’t experienced it before, I might struggle, even though I will always give it my best. Finally, we come to my other limits which are the probably fairly common: illegal, children, toilet, moderate to severe pain. But, of course, the affecting my marriage thing will have a major influence on things, so stuff like permanent or semi permanent changes would also be limits. And, this would need to be online. Which makes time zones and stuff less relevant but also makes you experiencing pleasure potentially more difficult to ensure.
I tend to go on a bit in messages! But I think you deserve to know how your sub is feeling, and what he can offer you etc. Out of kink I am reasonably fit as I run a lot. But wouldn't say muscley or slim. Pretty easy going, I like sports, used to play computer games, but don't seem to have time now.
So why hasn’t this worked before? Well, on a couple of times, it has. Once for about a year, before some panties being found by my wife, and having to stop, and once for just a few special weeks before I think time differences, and limits due to my life, called it to a halt.
If you are still reading then wow! Would love to hear from you. You can find out anything else you need to know to see if we are a match or not. Feel free to message me and I will get back to you (having been ghosted so often I would hope that I wouldn't do the same!).
Hope to be able to serve and please you soon.