Hello to everyone who might read this. I know that Domme's get a lift if messages and are in the minority so here is a tldr of the post so you can see immediately if it's worth your time to continue reading.

I'm a 23 year old sub from central Europe. I'm ace, that doesn't mean I'm sex repulsed. I just don't see sex as the ultimate thing working towards. I'm new to BDSM as a while so I will probably ask a lot of stupid questions, please be patient. I'm searching for something long-term and monogamous.

With the tldr over I will expand on the points I brought up and sprinkle a few new ones in there. First of the ace thing. I am fully aware that for a lot of people sex and BDSM are intertwined and if that's the case for you, fellow potential reader, I fear that we won't be a good fit. As already stated I'm not sex repulsed and would engage in such activities but what I crave way more is the dynamic as a whole. Being vulnerable with someone and having another person in charge whom I can support and be there for just somehow resonates with me. Simultaneously I would love to be held accountable to my actions and disciplined if I do something wrong and also be praised if I do something right.

That pretty much describes my kinks and limits. My kinks are pretty much as already stated. I would like to be disciplined in a variety of ways and also be comforted. So physical touch and an intimate emotional connection are a really bad turn on for me. When it comes to my limits I'm pretty open to try everything at least once but there are a few things I'm pretty I'll never like. Those include anything anal, overly use of bodily fluids and public stuff.

Now a few things about the everyday vanilla me. I'm a pretty big nerd. I like video games, playing Yu-Gi-Oh watching shows and getting lost in various universes. Lately I've been trying to be more active again so I dusted my bike of and got back into cycling and also went hiking again after what feels like an eternity. I'm also interested in trying out new things (even though I need to pushed to doing them sometimes). Some of my new interests I'm trying to make into hobbies are astrophotography, reading and baking.

Personally I don't care about looks but I know that appearance matters to most people, which is totally understandable. But there is one preference I have. I would love to be the shorter one but with a height of around 1.88m/6.16feet it's a tall ask (I know the oun was bad but I couldn't resist). Now to me. As already stated I'm fairly tall and more on the chubbier side. I have dark hair and I'm pretty shy. I don't really know what else people look for when it comes to physical looks so if you're curious write me.

So if anything I wrote resonates with you shoot me a message. Even if we don't end up being compatible for a d/s dynamic I'd be more.than happy to make friends in the community r ask my stupid questions to.