Hello, I am a pansexual, gender-questioning but trans-fem leaning AMAB, searching for my kinky soulmate. I know this is kind of a long read but I just wanted to be comprehensive and convey properly who I am and what I'm here for. I promise I'm a real person and I'm not looking for a quickie or a one-time fling; I'm really not the type for that. If you catch me, I'm as loyal and devoted as they come, and I am in it for the long-term.

A fair warning and a possible dealbreaker first; I want to start off by saying that I am a Cancer, so if you happen to be into astrology that should probably give you a good overview of my personality. While I am a little bit shy and sensitive, I'm also an obedient, loyal, affectionate little puppy, and I am endlessly devoted to your pleasure. I am also a soft-spoken empath, and a great listener.

For vanilla hobbies, I love reading and writing, as you can probably tell by this very long post! I like to think I'm a good writer and I would love to make a career out of it someday. I like nature and I'm a little bit of an artsy hipster type; I'm into board/tabletop games and I love vintage, nostalgic media. I especially enjoy music! I am fast approaching 10,000 liked songs on Spotify, and I am unashamedly in the top 1% of Blink-182 listeners, so make of that what you will. I also love to travel, and would love to have a companion someday! There are a lot of places that I've been and a lot more places I have yet to go, especially outside the US.

On that note, distance is not much of a factor for me; I would want to start things off long-distance for now anyway. If we're both happy with the way things are going and wanting to take it a step further, I would be more than happy to travel to meet you someday. It would honestly be cool to meet someone else who is in my timezone (CST) or at least someone from the United States, but if you're from out of the country and willing to work with me then I'm definitely willing to try!

As far as appearances go, I'm honestly pretty open-minded; I do have kind of a thing for "alt girls" with tattoos, dyed hair, and/or piercings but that is definitely not a requirement. It would be cool to meet someone else in their twenties, but I am definitely willing to try outside that range. Height and weight don't really matter much to me either; I'm into all types of bodies, and I'm very open to meeting both cis and trans Dommes, just so that's clear! Considering I've been questioning my own sense of gender, it would honestly be kinda nice to meet someone who could act as a bit of a mentor figure and help me navigate femininity.

Above all else, it would be great for my Domme to be someone I can just chill and be intimate with. I would love for us to be able to snuggle, make mixtapes, watch movies, and play video games together. I am a Cancer after all, so I would definitely wanna do all the cute, cuddly, intimate, mushy couple stuff. In short, you can be as rough with me as you like, but I'll definitely wanna cuddle after!!

Generally speaking, I tend to like elements of gentle femdom and female-led relationships. I know I also like the idea of playing a more "traditionally feminine" role in a relationship and taking care of domestic duties around the house, such as cooking and cleaning and stuff. I'm honestly kinda curious about exploring a more structured dynamic as a maid, maybe with protocol, training, inspections, and other stuff? As a submissive, I do try to be good and obedient, but depending on the dynamic I could definitely see myself being playfully bratty from time-to-time... with the expectation that you would "correct" me, of course.

As for specific kinks, I am honestly a bit of an experimentalist. There are a lot of things I'm curious about, and I'm willing to try just about anything as long as it's not too gross, violent, or harsh. I honestly like just about any scenario where I'm doing something for your pleasure; either because you told me to, or because you force me to. In general, I would love being able to serve you, to worship your body the way a Queen deserves to be worshipped, and I would especially love the privilege of being able to give you backrubs, massages, and oral sex. I'm also pretty curious about pegging and butt stuff, but I would definitely want to take it slowly and start with smaller toys as I'm still pretty tight.

For now though, I would probably just wanna start off with some ERP, maybe go from there as we get to know each other? I do have some roleplay ideas I would love to try and I can go into more detail if that would please you, but if you'd have any ideas then I would definitely love to hear them!

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Things I'm Definitely Into: Gentle Femdom, Pain, Bondage, CBT, Ballbusting, Objectification, Sensation Play, Praise, Affirmation Play, Teasing, JOI, Cumplay, Forced Milking, Orgasm Control/Denial, Forced/Ruined Orgasm, Clawing, Biting, Hairpulling, Body Worship, Castration Threat, Backrubs/Massages, Oral Sex, Fingering, Cute Outfits, Medical Play, Teacher/Student, Doctor/Patient, Mistress/Maid

Things I'm Curious About: Domestic Servitude, Chastity Play, CNC, Humiliation and Degradation, Collar and Leash Play, Choking, Suckling, Overpowering, Banding, Bratting, Ageplay, Petplay, Primal, Sensory Deprivation, Abduction Play, Pegging, Butt Plugs, Trampling, Bootblacking, Human Furniture, Speech Restriction, Bladder Control, Muffing, Gags/Muzzles, Scent, MDLG?

Hard Limits: Gore, Vore, Scat, Vomit, Fisting, Prolapse, Needles

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I think that's about all I can think of! If anything in this caught your interest or if there's anything you wanna ask me about, feel free to message me and we can talk about the specifics! I can't wait to meet you, Ma'am <3