Hello everyone! Just a heads up, this will be a long and detailed post. I've poured my heart into crafting this post because I have an abundance of love to share in kinky ways and I'm eager to create new experiences with someone special.

-- About Me --

Physically

I’m 31, single, white, dark brown hair, average body (6ft, 178lb), wears glasses, bearded (open to shaving), vaccinated, never smoked, never done drugs, don’t drink at all, no tattoos. I'm more than happy to verify each other early on.

Personality

I'm an INTP with a mix of introversion and talkative enthusiasm. I've been described as kind, caring, passionate, nerdy, curious, open, honest, logical and yes, a little bit kinky :) I cherish meaningful connections, engaging conversations, and value 'quality time' and 'words of affirmation' as my love language.

Interests

My passion for fantasy (not just sexual!) extends to gaming, TV, and books – with an unwavering conviction that The Lord of the Rings films are the pinnacle of cinematic excellence, and Game of Thrones reigns supreme as the ultimate TV series!

Beyond that, I'm into music, F1, CGI, and AI. And here's a fun fact about me – I have a quirky love for custard creams!

Daily Life

I've built a fulfilling and successful career, working Monday to Friday, mostly from home. While my job is very important to me, I value making time for that special someone and expect the same. In the evenings, you'll often find me on Discord, unwinding and connecting with friends, not forgetting that balancing adult responsibilities is crucial to daily life.

-- My Ideal Domme –

I'm seeking a nurturing yet commanding women with qualities of a Mommy or Gentle/Soft Domme. Experience does not matter to me as together we can explore and discover. I welcome connections from all women, biological or trans, prioritising connection based on shared interests and mutual respect. I value the blend of care, discipline, and exploration in a potential partner. I am looking for the same qualities I bring; passionate, communicative, loyal, honest, and emotionally available.

I'm on the lookout for a local partner in the UK who's interested in building a lifelong, monogamous relationship. It would be fantastic if we already share some common interests and kinks. An absolute bonus would be finding someone who shares my enthusiasm for gaming – a passion we could potentially explore together. I value people who are passionate about something. I find joy in learning about what makes you happy and the things that drive you.

My communication preference is text and voice chats, this is why I'd love for us to connect on Discord after Reddit, initially. I envision our interactions evolving over time, fostering a bond where we can talk for hours about anything and everything, both including and excluding kink. As comfort grows, the ultimate goal would be transitioning to in-person meetings.

Honesty and emotional availability are crucial to me. I pride myself on being open and honest about my exploration and experiences. Communication and care are non-negotiables, as I believe in creating a secure space for our connection to thrive. Mutual attention and regular conversations are key, understanding the significance of connection, consent, and respect before delving deeper into the unknown.

No short-term interests; dealbreakers: smoking, drug use, STIs/STDs.

-- My Kinky Side –

Now, onto the thrilling part... I've become a very eager explorer after discovering online play. Being new to the kinky world, I'm completely enthralled by the idea of surrendering control. I'm on the lookout for a commanding dominant who can help guide me on a journey of self-discovery, transforming me into their ideal plaything.

You might catch me being a bit bratty at times, but it's often just a mask for my underlying excitement. A firm hand, however, has a way of bringing me into line. Despite a typical masculine presence in my everyday life, the thought of slipping into silky panties and being at the beck and call of both men and women sends shivers down my spine. And, let's not forget, I do have a few toys that are just begging to be part of the fun.

I have my own set of kinks, but I'm incredibly flexible and open-minded. If our lists don't align perfectly, it's not a dealbreaker. I thrive on exploring diverse desires and believe the most exciting connections come from discussing and embracing each other's passions.

Kinks

JOI, CEI, orgasm control, edging, praise, mommy domme, teasing, sissification, forced bi, cock worship, trans

Hard Limits

Scat, watersports, vomit, breath play, blood, CBT, pain, fire play, permanent marks, social suicide, anything illegal

Next Steps

If you've made it this far, I'm intrigued! Shoot me a message with your ASL, a bit about yourself, and what caught your eye in my profile. Demonstrate your interest beyond a simple "Hi" – share your thoughts and let's kick off a meaningful conversation. Feel free to share a picture if you're comfortable - I'll happily reciprocate. Let's chat and see where this journey takes us!

P.S. Feel free to share your thoughts on the best movie or TV series, and whether you share my love for custard creams – I'm all ears!