Hi there! My name is Victor and I'm looking for a long term, romantic and monagamous relationship with femdom/FLR elements :) keep reading if you're looking for the same!

~About vanilla me~

A little about me, I'm 21 years old and currently living in Copenhagen. I'm working after having finished school and am working in a supermarket. I love cats and want some someday but any pet is fine. For my looks, I wear Clark Kent glasses and have medium length dark brown hair with a mix of green and brown eyes. I'm 189 cm tall and weigh 90 kg, so an average build that's neither slim nor chubby, and am working on losing weight. Most people say I have a conventionally attractive face :) I have a lot of body hair growth and do my best to keep it down haha

I'll likely start university next year depending on how the bartending thing goes, and I'll probably study something with chemistry :3

As for my interests I'm on the nerdy side. I love video games, shows and movies and music. My favourite video games include single player games like the Witcher, Elden Ring and Dark Souls 3, Genshin Impact, Hades, and more - and multiplayer games like Destiny 2, League of Legends and potentially shooters like Valorant and Counter Strike (but I'm very bad at those 2 >_<) it's not a deal breaker if you don't like video games but I think playing things together could be super fun :3 My favorite movies include most Christopher Nolan Movies, the Robert Langdon movies, and horror movies such as Hereditary, Saw series, Conjuring series, and more! My favorite shows include sitcoms such as the Office, Brooklyn 99 and How I Met Your Mother and also shows like most of Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad and Vikings - it doesn't matter at all if our tastes don't align because then that just means we have more stuff to show to each other! :3

I love long walks and hiking/day trips and long talks about anything from our day, like what have for our meals, what we do for errands, music, activities, anything (I really like texting and hope you'll do the same haha) to general world topics such as politics, world news, social issues, climate change, history, music, movies, shows, anything!

I got into making cocktails over last year's summer and love it lots as a hobby, so if you have a favorite drink I'd definitely love to make it ^{^}

I also have a stutter which is a deal breaker for some people so I like mentioning it early :) it's not a big deal for me and I've become quite used to it. I stutter a fair amount when meeting new people as I feel nervous/unsure, but as I become more comfy with people I tend to stutter a lot less, like I barely even stutter at all around close friends and family - and in my past relationships, I've been told that my stutter is adorable, so if you like shy boys I think you'd like my stutter, as I also tend to stutter more when I become shy/flustered :3

As for my personality, I'm a little shy/held back most of the time in public, but as I become more comfortable around people I don't hold myself and would say I'm quite expressive and everyone says I have a cute smile :3 I love helping people and making them feel happy and I love making people laugh and try it often despite my stutter haha. My personality type is INFP-T :3

~Favourite kinks~

I think finding out if you're kink compatible with someone is a longer discussion and it can't be done properly just in a reddit post, but I'll list my favorites here if you'd be interested :3

• Orgasm control. This is one is definitely a like of mine :3 I'd love for you to decide when and if I can touch myself, make me edge for you or you edge me. I also love denial and begging for permission/release, and I love chastity as well! I'm quite experienced and can be caged 23/7, sleeping and working with it but taking half an hour in the morning to shower and clean everything

• Praise and pet names. I definitely have a huge praise kink and will melt if you call me sweet names. I think most cute names are great but my favorites include things like sweet/my/cute/pretty/good boy, angel, sweetie, sweetheart, puppy. I couldn't put into words how these kind of pet names make me feel, but the best I can describe is blushy, happy, melty and subby :3 I'm also especially weak to adding "my" before any of them, like "my good boy" would make me melt for sure haha. I also do like a little bit of the slightly more mean words such as dummy, but the gentle and sweet words are best ^ ^ As for your title, (if you're into those) my 2 favorites include Mommy (not with any of the MDlb kinks if you're not into those) and Miss, but your favorite title is my favourite too :)

• Body worship (on you). I think one of my biggest kinks is pleasing and showing my love for you through making you happy and feel good. I think oral especially is super hot and you grabbing my hair while I'm making you feel good would make me melt :3 I'm also into foot massages/worship, or any other body part like legs/back/tummy/neck, anything you'd want massaged I'd love to do :3

There's tonnes of fun kinks out there though and other likes include butt stuff like pegging/plugs, spit, light pain, light pet play like collaring and pet names, light bondage, light marks such as love bites, scratch/bite/lipstick marks or body writing :3 Absolutely none of these are musts though and they're just to give you an idea :) my hard limits include scat, emotional abuse (such as ignoring, gaslighting, abusing limits/boundaries), blood and knives, cheating and incest.

First and foremost though I am looking for romance and a good connection so kinks don't really matter that much :3

~Past experiences and relationships~

I've had a few relationships in the past. I love clear and frequent communication like texting a lot throughout the day or voice calls, and hope that you do the same :) while getting to know each other online I'd also love for us to do things together like listen to music, watch movies, sleep calls, play video games or whatever else you'd fancy :)

I've been in some online dynamics and done a bit of kink stuff in person so I do have kink experience although not a lot.

~You~

Ideally, you're looking for a long term, romantic and monogamous relationship with femdom/FLR elements and that is close to 24/7, but being fully aware that both of us have rough episodes and might need breaks, which are totally acceptable and normal :) I also want you to be able to talk about your struggles and hardships with me. In a past relationship, a partner of mine didn't feel like they could talk about their emotions and struggles with me because they viewed me as submissive first and partner second, and they'd feel like a bad dom for confiding in me. While I understand the thought, I don't like it and I'd want you to be able to talk to me about your feelings and know that I'd be there to comfort you and do my best to make you feel better. Dominant women absolutely are entitled to wanting to be held and comforted as well, and you're not any less of a domme by having tough episodes and needing to be comforted :)

I don't really care about age so let's say if you're between 20-40 you'll be perfect for me :) I don't really care much about looks either. I find that chemistry and connection 10000% come first and are much more important :3 I do still want basic physical attraction though and would love picture verification before we get too deep into talking :) (I'll obviously also share lots of picutures of myself). I'd love if you're anywhere in Europe as I think time zone differences more than like 3-4 hours get really hard and I'm looking for IRL as well. If we live a long time apart and like each other, I'm definitely open to getting to know each other over time online first and doing some meet ups, and if we really like each other I'd definitely relocate for you :3

With that said, while my primary want is a romantic relationship, if you're nearby and are looking for a casual play partner I'd be down to see if we click as well.

That about sums it up! If you've made it this far send me a chat or PM and we can get to know each other a little and see if we hit it off :3