Hi! Thanks for reading my post!

I’m ultimately looking for a long term, monogamous relationship, but I’m willing to explore any paths that could lead to that.

I’m a relatively successful guy with a career in tech. I’m extremely extroverted, friendly, outgoing, and driven in life, and to all external appearances I appear to be very type A and dominant in who I am. However, behind closed doors I want nothing but to submit to a strong woman who’ll take control give me the pleasure of serving her, whilst making me feel loved and cared for.

My dream, though of course I’m very much willing to take whatever flavour of this you prefer, would be to feel controlled and humiliated whenever we’re in private. When we’re at home, I would love to be forced to wear dresses; be that a traditional maids uniform complete with underwear etc. whilst I serve you and clean the house, or be that a dress only suitable for a little girl, with the frilliest of underwear, and my hands locked away in mitts I can’t remove; making me completely dependent on you for anything.

I love the idea of being kept in 24/7/365 chastity for my Domme, and making her pleasure and amusement my key focus. I crave someone who takes pleasure from humiliating me, and pushing me past the point of finding it a huge turn on, until I regret what I’ve asked for and I feel true humiliation and helplessness with no chance of escape or let up. I’ve been through this before, and I truly need and want someone strong who isn’t going to back down when I plead with them to stop and let me go back to normal life. Every time I do that I enormously regret it, so I’m looking for something truly long term and in which I can feel both utterly helpless as well as loved and cared for.

Physically, I’m 6ft tall, dad bod, I’ve got a beard, and I look a bit Germanic. I live just north of London, and I drive.

My basic kink list is below, but I’m very open and willing to try most things at least once!

• chastity
• spanking
• pegging
• sissification
• foot worship
• oral servitude
• collaring
• restraints
• forced CE
• humiliation

Hard limits are scat, blood, anything involving deadly weapons, children, animals, insects etc.

If you’re interested and chatting and exploring if we have a connection I would love to hear from you!