Hello, if you are reading this, you can simply refer to me as Mona. I did recently make a post, but I feel that it is a bit outdated and needs a bit of updating.

What do I look like?: I am standing at 5 foot two, African-American, and my hair is styled in locs that I’ve had since my sophomore year of high school that fall down to my tailbone. I’m a cis woman, I have big brown eyes, and a warm smile. I am a bit on the chubby side, but I am working to lose weight and would like to meet somebody who is encouraging of that journey. I am pear-shaped and carry most of my weight in my ass and my thighs, so, if you like “mommy” shaped women, you’re in luck.

Who am I?: My name is Mona, I'm a 24-year-old college student in my final year pursuing a bachelor's degree in management with a minor in financial technology. My interests span reading, horror movies, video games, makeup, gardening, baking, cooking, knitting, anime, exercising, camping, 420, and board games. My friends have described me as direct, to the point, and occasionally bossy, but never needlessly mean. I embrace being an ambivert, valuing both alone time and moments with my closest friends. While initially stoic and reserved, I tend to open up over time, revealing my goofy and easygoing side.

How do I dominate?: I would describe my domination style as warm, guiding, parental, and protective. I always have my submissive’s best interest in mind in all of the decisions I make. I would describe myself as less of a Dominant, and more of a Mistress, as I want much more control than a D/s relationship could offer. I can be quite teasing and mean, to balance out the warmth of my demeanor. I often describe my domination style as your favorite kindergarten teacher crossed with a strict nun. I enjoy structure, discipline, and rules, I love making a safe space for those under my care with these principles.

What am I looking for?: Well, I’m looking for a dynamic where my property is able to submit completely, trusting me and implicitly. I’m looking for a deep and intrinsic connection that forms gradually overtime and lasts indefinitely. I’m looking for a dynamic built off of communication, honesty, and respect. Dynamics that I’m open to would include ones with heavy pet play, or age play undertones. My end goal for a dynamic is a total power exchange situation. I’m looking for someone that understands, at the very least, the foundations of BDSM, and knows what it means to respect boundaries. I’m looking for someone that is interested in furthering their involvement within the community and only open to a monogamous dynamic. I’m looking for someone that is located within the United States exclusively, preferably on the East Coast, or moving to the East Coast soon, or willing to relocate to the East Coast. I am only open to speaking to individuals between the ages of 21 and 40. I’m looking for someone that’s open to spending a reasonable amount of quality time with me through voice, chat, gaming, or scheduled movie nights together, while things are long-distance. I’m looking for someone who wants a genuine connection, and not just short-term gratification. I will not be sexually available to you in the beginning of us speaking. I am queer, so anyone regardless of gender is encouraged to inquire.

What’s to include in your message to me?: Tell me your name, describe a bit about yourself, what got you into kink, your hobbies, your experience with kink so far, and anything else you’d like to include about yourself. Just be yourself and remember to have fun with your response. You also must be willing to at least share a face picture, and I will do the same.

• Kinks:

  • MD/lg and MD/lb
  • Humiliation
  • Pet play
  • Light feminization
  • TPE
  • CNC
  • JOI
  • Domestic service
  • Objectification
  • Chasity
  • Face sleeping
  • Sadism
  • Face sitting
  • Body worship
  • Spanking/Impact play
  • Discipline
  • Bondage
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Edging
  • Denial
  • Primal play
  • Breath play
  • Body Writing
  • Kidnapping/Hostage play
  • Biting
  • Marking
  • Fear play

• Hard Limits:

  • Sissification
  • Rimming (Giving)
  • Blood 🩸
  • Hypno 😵‍💫
  • Scat 💩
  • Sounding 🎼
  • Urethra play
  • Forced Bi
  • Vomit 🤢
  • Sharing/polyamory
  • Enemas
  • Anything illegal 🚫
  • Extreme anal
  • Medical play 😷
  • Permanent injury