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LONG post ahead so I apologize

I have tried a few times to make a meaningful connection within the femdom community before and have not really had much success.

I’m looking for a relationship, but am open to ONS or casual relationships. That being said, submission is a fairly personal act and and the connection that I can create with someone would be greater in a relationship. So what does that submission look like to me? A little something like this. Of course, only whatever you are also into, and this is not an exhaustive list.

1. Silencing myself while you’re speaking, and only speaking when spoken to.
2. Dressing in a way that you approve. I need to wear suits to work but other than that, you have control.
3. Providing you with services. I am not a 5 star chef but I can cook, clean, and do other general tasks that you need me to
4. Basic male responsibilities such as the sidewalk rule
5. Preparing baths for you

And so on. I like to envision the goal to being like Gomez from the Addams Family. Now will I do this for just anyone? No. I want to have a solid connection with someone.

I live in Westchester but work in Manhattan and can travel since I have a car to NNJ if needed. I’m hoping for someone between the ages of 21-35. If you fall outside of that age range, you can still message me!! Personality is bigger than age but that is what my ideal age range is.

I am 6’ tall, ~175pounds and go to the gym anywhere from 4-7x a week. It depends on my work schedule but I try to be as much of a body builder as I can (and eat as much as possible lol)

I’m also a nerd. I love anime and gaming, but don’t get to enjoy much of either recently. I also enjoy playing the digimon card game because it’s sick! I also enjoy reading, and specifically audiobooks. I’m currently listening to LOTR, Fellowship of the Ring on Audible.

As far as kinks, here’s some I’m interested in performing. Again, not everything here is mandatory and it is not exhaustive!

47 [F4M] #New York looking for a sub or sissy to train and use

Forced Nudity.

Forced Performances. As in, telling me to perform in a manner you wish. Whether it’s teasing or twerking for you. I think I have a nice ass for that at least.

Spitting. I love making eye contact while receiving spit on me.

Golden showers. Open to this, never tried.

Verbal humiliation and praise, very solid.

Deepthroat training. Either a strapon or with your hands/feet. I would love to make gagging noises for you.

Cum cleanup. Wherever it is!

Slapping: not too hard since I can’t come into work with bruises but my face or anywhere on my body is fun :)

Pegging/ass play: never tried but open

I hope you enjoyed reading this and if you’re local and interested in meeting, send me a message! I look forward to hearing from y’all and hope you all find what you’re looking for.