Hello all!

Quite the ordinary 36/175 Guy from Finland: tattoo-sporting, not-that-tall, dark-haired and averagely handsome. I’m emotionally intelligent, openminded, communicative and childfree by a choice.

I live in Turku, visit other Nordic countries often, enjoy travelling and I am open to relocate.

I have my ducks in a row, so to speak: I have a job I like very much (and work remotely majority of the time), look after my health and enjoy walks in the nature, reading and audiobooks, cooking and culture - my love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch.

I am looking for something long-term - my ideal would be to find an empathetic, openminded and communicative partner who also would like to commit, naturally things develop on their own pace, but in the end I'm looking for something that has potential to last.

I didn't start with my kinks on purpose, but to tell something about those:

• I like to please and woman’s pleasure has always been something I aim for.
• I've liked bein a bottom and in my ideal relationship pegging/assplay would be natural part of sex - I wouldn’t mind if that is main source of pleasure for me!
• I like words of affirmation, although in bed I enjoy verbal both in praising and degrading manner.

Otherwise I like (thick) toys, restraints, fisting, getting tasks and all type of things very much - and I am quite skilled as pleasure top/dom-role.

Watersports is something I enjoy too, but again, not a must-have. I own a chastity, so orgasm control for a extended period of time is definitely an option.

You could say that in generally I like dominating women in general: think of a succesful and strong-willed person, who still has the caring and kind side - so for me a FLR is an welcomed option, but as said, for me it's not all about humiliation or being dominated, I wish for the caring and empathetic side as an balancing act.

I’ve done quite a lot of reflection on what I want in life and I know that this would be the way. I'm not bratty or expect someone to break, humiliate or push me down, for me the pleasing, bottoming and receiving is more of a natural thing - and it's something I enjoy.

So, if you're a female who is open for a relationship that's looking rather regular to the outside but would be something along the lines of what I described, do drop me a message.

And this just a scratch on the surface: I think that each couple builds their own dynamics, so I'm open for quite many things not listed here!

Hoping to hear from someone likeminded!

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