Hello my name is Summer! 🌸

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking to make more internet friends. I miss getting to know people and having genuine conversations and really vibing. I think it’s super cool having friends in the femdom community. Personally it’s a secret IRL so being able to relate to others and just casually talk about similar interests and stories within femdom is SUCH an amazing feeling. Genuinely connecting and bonding with someone over a similar interest is something I always cherish. Of course, I want to be actual friends and not just talk about femdom but regular convos about our days and ourselves

I only seek a real relationship/dynamic IRL now as I’ve learned long distance stuff as a whole isn’t for me personally. Props to you if you make it work! In the mean time, I’d love to make genuine friendships. If they lead into casual platonic fun that’s okay as long as clear boundaries and expectations are set BOTH WAYS but it’s not my focus.

About Me

• 29 years old
• Cis male
• East Coast United States
• Asian
• Very smol and skinny, feel free to guess or ask for my exact height if you’re curious!
• Very shy but will open up VERY quickly if we really vibe 😊
• Loves to game online a lot, too much, it’s incredibly unhealthy but would be cool i have more gamer friends!
• Honesty is the #1 priority of my values, many of values are close at the top but honesty will never be topped for me. I feel that I am very transparent and like keeping it that way personally.
• Very respectful of boundaries and privacy, even more on the internet as you truly never know who you’re dealing with and it is dangerous I will never deny that so I like to respect people’s boundaries as much as I can to make sure they’re always as comfortable as they should be if I can help. That being said, I will always respect your time and privacy. I am a super needy person but I would never put it against you or think of you in a bad way if you didn’t respond. Everyone has their own lives and own problems, or sometimes you just don’t have the energy to reply and that’s okay. Nobody is obligated to respond to anyone, and I hope you understand that.
• Tends to ramble a lot, check the bullet point above this for example. It’s a bad habit, once I get going sometimes I don’t realize until I’ve typed out a whole paragraph and maybe it might be overwhelming. Hopefully not but felt obligated to warn you. It definitely is just me being interested or passionate about what I’m talking about.

About me (NSFW)

• Submissive without a dominant bone in my body.
• Into gentle stuff but tbh i’m a huge slut and enjoy a lot of more intense stuff as well.
• Had a few dynamics online, none in person
• Started attending irl events this year to meet new people and become more involved in the community
• Owns a decent amount of toys 🫢

Kink List

(Not everything of course, enough to give you an idea while leaving room to learn about each other together)

• Feet control me, everything about them and it’s not even close. Soles are my favorite but I also love arches and seeing super pretty pedicures!
• Orgasm control is so fun! Giving up complete control of my orgasms and not being allowed to even touch without permission. Needing to ask and beg for permission to cum, being denied or granted, ruined, oh it’s a beautiful kink! Petplay! Moreso into the ownership aspect, collars and leashes, petting and being called puppy (my favorite name)
• CFNM is wonderful, what a lovely way to represent the power dynamic. I already feel so weak and vulnerable but add it with me being naked or in slutty lingerie and you being clothed is just chefs kiss.
• Pain is fun, I used to be against it but explored it safely and it grew on me. i can’tdo extreme stuff but CBT is fun, spanking is my favorite, face slapping is lovely, nipple torture.
• Buttplay of course. Prostate play, pegging, plugs, ah shit writing this makes me feel like a slut. And i love that!
• Humilation and degradation is tricky, it’s specific but I can go pretty heavy in general. Love being called a slut and pervert and have done some really humiliating tasks/punishments 😅

Limits

• Scat
• Ageplay
• Blood
• Permanent stuff like scars

Many, many more but you can learn about those later if you’d like!

I’ve probably rambled more than I’d like but feel free to reach out if any of this interests you! I look forward to any messages, if any at all! Can’t expect things to happen if you don’t put yourself out there! I’ve had great success online before so if you’re reading this I hope you take my advice and just try if you’re really interested. Okie bye I gotta stop talking.