About Me:

I'm Tade, a 27M sub in the Mid-western USA (MST). I'm a teacher, and I love my job. So much. I spend hours at my job every day and it's the best part of my week. I enjoy helping kids, laughing with them, being a shoulder to cry on, and learning with them. It's exciting and new every day, but it's also exhausting, as you might imagine. Amazingly enough, I've found a love of running in the last year. So, I'm fit now and becoming more in shape every week. I say every week because sometimes my job holds me until 8pm or later, so I don't find time to go running every day. But, I love it and I love the solitude and mental stability from every mile I run.

SFW pic of me https://imgur.com/a/SLYg0ML

Other loves of mine include cooking, baking, gaming, reading, netflix, and music. I'm a huge lover of music. Ask me about any of these and more in my DMs!

What I Bring:

I have a big drive. I have goals, aspirations, and dreams and I'd love to find someone who has their own--I'm pretty done dating people who's goals consist of "I dunno, get a job I guess." Have the self awareness to know where you are in life, where you'd like to be, and how you'd like to get there. I generally know what's going on in my life and what I can do to improve. If you see something in me that I can improve on, let me know so I can work on that, too.

I'm good at improvising--within set boundaries. I take my inspiration from cooking, actually. I know the general formulas for lots of dishes, and I'm easily able to adapt them to different tastes and different dietary needs. If you let me know what you like, what you don't like, what's allowed, and what's not allowed, then you can count on me to improvise within those boundaries to the benefit of the both of us.

I communicate effectively and try not to read between the lines. Look, technology is great in that you get to read this about me from the comfort of your own home, but the problems show quickly when something is misunderstood or misstated. If these moments are let to sit, they fester into discontent and even resent. So, I don't ignore them but I approach them face first and with a level head. Find the miscommunication, straighten it out, and dissect the source of the miscommunication to try to prevent it from happening again.

You:

I'd love to talk to someone and be friends (or at least close acquaintances). I hope that we'd at least get to talking about the following before we play:

• how best to talk to each other
• discussing our experience in kink and the kink community
• finding out what each other's love language is
• our hobbies and passions
• creating ways to form connection through distance
• find our mutual kinks and what makes the other *tick*
• each of our limits

Age range: 21-40Location: Any (closer time zones better, but don't be discouraged!)Body type / height / weight: Don't have to be a fitness coach, but be active and be able-bodied.Personality traits: Laughs often, lives freely, knows her mind, has opinions and shares them frequently, knows how to push themselves to a new level, gentle handed but hard headed, can communicate effectively.Preferred domme style(s): Gentle femdom/FLR

The Naughty Things:

Kinklist: https://i.imgur.com/b2m7TkO.png Favorites: Femdom, worship, hypnosis, edging/denial, sissy, aftercare, communication, holding a conversation.Limits: Body fluids, nonconsent, not verifying after I verify.Want more? Message me and get to know me first :)

Looking forward to chatting with you!

-Tade