First of all: I don't answer lazy messages or messages from people I don't know what they look like. Attraction is essential and I have to know if you are my type physically, before engaging in a conversation with you, and, to be quite blunt, nothing substitutes a cute face for me.
I am from Brazil and I currently live in half the year in Portugal, half in Goiânia - Goiás. I am vegan, a progressive, a metalhead, a nerd who loves being at home watching movies, videos series, reading, playing videogames, listening to audiobooks/podcasts, stories, rock/metal (some of my favorite bands are: She Wants Revenge, After Forever, HIM, Volbeat, etc and have been listening recently to Nanowar of steel, Calabrese among others). I love going to concerts, dancing (retro music and bellydance) and being in nature/in the water.
An example of an ideal quality time with my sub would be to have him or her gently run their fingers on my back while I read some creepy story to the both of us. I am looking for something serious that will, hopefully, last a lifetime. Something that will evolve to living together and adopting pets, but not having kids. The dream would be to live a kinky but loving life, where we grow some organic veggies together, have cozy moments watching horror movies under the blankets and, are honest at all times with each other and have open communication with one another. I would never lie to my partner and I am looking for someone who also would never lie to me.
I care about heatlh and I know how to keep a place clean and organized, and I expect those qualities from you. I am sadistic and love humiliation but I also am very loving, I give a lot of attention and compliments to my sub. Don't expect praise for regular things or every single thing you do for me but know that I pay attention to everything and appreciate real efforts and dedication. If any of the following kinks are among your limits, we might not be compatible: foot worship humiliation and CBT if that applies to your gender, because those are big kinks for me. I am not into brats, switches or anyone who does not identify themselves as sub or slave. If you are younger than me, I would be interested in exploring the mommy fetish and I have some taboo fetishes but I am not interested in people who wear diapers, use pacifiers and things like that.
I have experience being in FLRs and it is up to you to show me that you know what you want. You can see more information about me on Fetlife, my user name is Volutopia. If you decide to send me message, make sure you mention why you think we would be a match and what you have that I am looking for. Also make sure to include a clear face picture or, better, a video in which I can see your eyes well (I will ask for a video right in the beginning of the conversation anyway).
DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF WE HAVE NO VALUES/HOBBIES IN COMMON and DO NOT send me your list of your sexual fantasies in your first message: this is just gross, coming from strangers on internet and it immediately shows that you have poor social/dating skills. It is important that, if you are not in the same city as me, you inform me that you are able to travel to me and how we could possibly live together one day, because if you can't make these happen, there is no point messaging me.
Check my profile on Fetlife, it is the same user name over there. On there I have a lot of information about me and even a list for you to answer later on, if I see potential in you.
This is me: https://imgur.com/a/MaGSsPv.