Hello there, name's Olu! I'm a dom leaning switch, who got into domming in the beginning of the pandemic, so I've primarily been online, but hoping to change that. I've done the whole domming without really knowing the person or building a connection, and that's no fun for me. I'm looking to get to know you and vice versa, I'd like a true connection. I'm not looking to be a kink dispenser or to treat you like one.

A little about me, I'm 5'6, plus size, and black. I'm poly, but not opposed to being mono. I love cooking and baking, I'm a bit of a crafts nerd, love SciFi, thrillers and horror. Also a virgin, this of course doesn't mean I don't know what I want.

Kink wise I am into a lot of things, some of the things I'm into are spanking, I love when guys moan or are just vocal in general, love giving out praises, orgasm denial/edging, ruined orgasm, overstimulation, feminization, face sitting, ANR, among others. I'm more of a mommy dom, so I can be really caring, affectionate, and nurturing. But don't let the kindness fool you, I have a sadistic streak.

Hard no's are incest, race play, scat, age play, and permanently marking someone.

I'm looking for partner(s) that want to build something not just kink wise but also outside of kink. I want a true connection and to grow with you. I do have a soft spot for men that are into men, I am poly and I wouldn't mind having partners that where also into eachother 👀😌

Ideally I would prefer that you aren't younger than 26. If you're younger than 24 please know that is way to young for me.

This can start off online, but the goal is to be able to meet in person. Please be in Ontario, Canada. I've tried LDR and unfortunately it isn’t for me. I'm located in York Region, north of the GTA

Send me a message if this interests you and tell me what your favourite movie is plus a little about you!