When the mom friend who didn’t want to be friends with you and made you feel dumb when your kid was little because your parenting style is too gentle and communicative, vs her grabbing, cursing, rough, yelling, finger-pointing, name-calling style, ends up with the terror child when yours is sitting quietly sharing her goldfish crackers with her baby sister at park day. Then agrees to get a house with us 2 years later. Like. 👀

Not mom shaming, just the plain results. I love her to death. I just cringe when I see her grab her 2 year old kid and call her an asshole over something stupid and insignificant.

Update: we are not getting a place together because she got a job (previously and currently full time student and unemployed, so she’ll be able to afford a place herself. Which I’m thankful for.