Hiya moms of Reddit. Currently experiencing a ton of anxiety and need to talk it through with mom. My irl mom doesn’t know when I am sexually active and would definitely not be a good person to discuss with.

So I work at a bar and one of the bartenders and I banter and flirt like crazy. It’s fun, whatever. Well I slept with him last night. The dilemma I am in is somewhat of a series of issues but mainly, this man had (has?) a partner who he lives with. Now, I didn’t agree to sleep with him until we had a whole conversation about that situation. He’s saying she and him are broken up and waiting out the lease for the last couple weeks so he can move in with his best friend (I did confirm this with the best friend). I can’t confirm with her because I don’t know her or any of her contact information. I don’t get a lying vibe from this man but I still feel super slimy at the possibility that I could have just gotten in the middle of something that I didn’t need to be in. I usually have anxiety after I have sex but this is not my normal level. I can’t focus on anything and I’m contemplating asking him for her contact so I can reach out and make sure he’s not lying. Is that too much ? What does one do here (aside from not sleeping with him,maybe I should have waited to do that. But I expect grown adults to be truthful and that might be the issue too because a lot of them are just liars). Neither of us want to date the other it’s purely friendship and fun but I still feel gross about the possibility of infidelity and lying.