He can just up and leave and not think about a little person and everything they need, or when they last ate or slept or pooped. On top of that I’m a sahm and do 90 percent of the things around the house. When I bring it up he gets mad saying he’s tired of working, like raising a child isn’t work. I don’t know how to get it through his head the amount of work I do everyday even if “I’m just home”. He’s going away for a week long business trip and I’m so jealous of the fact that he can just up and leave and not parent for a whole week. When I have to plan out a two hour venture. How did you guys get your husbands to change or what, I’m at a loss. My therapist told me I have to spell things out for him but I’ve done so. Why do I have to continue to do so.