I’m a 30 yr old pansexual male. I was first molested by my uncle when I was 7. He made me give him oral sex. I was so clueless and innocent around that time I didn’t know I was doing something wrong. I told my mom about it when I was in high school. She was so infuriated they I didn’t even bother to tell her about all the other family members and friends that molested me too. My girl cousins made me finger her until she climaxed I was 8. I would have sleepovers with my neighborhood friends and some make cousins and we would play with each others penises. One time after football practice there was a man that followed me into the bathroom stall and stared touching me and making me touch him. I was 12 years old at the time. All of these things have always made me confused about my sexuality my whole life. It’s like a spirit of molestation just always followed me. It’s affecting my dating life.