Hey,

I’m a 35-year-old guy from the Twin Cities, happily married for 10 years—but let’s just say that bedroom spark has fizzled out over the past 4-5 years. I’m in a situation where I still value my marriage but crave something more emotionally and physically fulfilling—looking to connect with someone in a similar spot.

A little about me:

• Active & Health-Conscious: I work out 3-5 times a week to stay healthy and keep my energy levels high. I’m not trying to win any fitness competitions, but I do make it a priority to stay active. Whether it’s a long bike ride, a run, or a spontaneous adventure, I want to feel good in my body and have the energy to enjoy life.
• Marketer by Trade, Open by Nature: I’m a marketer, so I spend my days problem-solving and communicating with people. I’m educated, thoughtful, and love deep conversations, but I also know how to lighten the mood when it’s time for some fun. I can talk about anything—whether it’s philosophy, current events, or the latest Netflix series you’re binge-watching.
• Pleasure-Driven: In terms of intimacy, while I’ve been with a limited number of partners, I promise that when it comes to the bedroom, your pleasure will always be my top priority. I’m passionate, respectful, and believe in creating a safe space for both physical and emotional connection. It’s not just about getting off—it’s about making sure you feel valued and desired.
• Spontaneous & Adventurous: I travel for work, which means there’s always an opportunity for a quick lunch, a dinner date, or even a weekend getaway. I like to keep things low-key but exciting, and I’m definitely into making our time together memorable.
• What I’m Looking For: I’m hoping to connect with someone who is also in a long-term relationship or marriage and understands the need for discretion. You’re someone who knows how to balance privacy with passion, and can appreciate the art of a deep conversation. Someone who’s around my age (early 30s to early 40s) and is looking for a connection that doesn’t come with strings attached—just good chemistry and great vibes. Physical appearance isn’t a huge dealbreaker for me (though confidence and a great smile definitely help!).
• Discretion is Key: I’m all about privacy, and you can expect the same from me. I’ll never ask for explicit pictures, nor will I send anything like that—let’s keep things fun, safe, and respectful until we meet and get a vibe going. I’m happy to share a photo after we’ve had a chance to connect and see if we’re a good match.

P.S. If you’ve got a funny "adultery" joke or a clever line to break the ice, you’ve already got my attention. 😉