I've realized thru trial and error, mostly error, everyone is thinking the same thing...but just about everybody is doing it wrong.

Having posted before, I realize that everyone that is on here needs their hand held a little bit, so hopefully this will not only help us find each other, but you find someone else if you're looking.

I'm trying to set up an exclusive established club/group of 'likewired' people who all work together. All the mainstream avenues seem to go about it the wrong way. Broadcast a net wide, capture 95% of the people that don't work for you or even each other, be thirsty, host a party, add a bunch of rules to protect yourself while making everyone else surrender their power, feel empowered, maybe get a bad orgasm from someone you really have no attraction to, they offer nothing other than a hole, you will probably never invite or see again and have no connection, genuine attraction, commonality. Absolutely zero.

This your experience, too?

I've had it in my mind to form a group, and posted on here previously. (Check the history). I've gotten over 100 responses of people requesting to join or expressing interest, and literally only one individual came at me correct enough to bother to reply...but for they were 4 hours away so he didnt get a reply either.

I laid out clearly what it is "I" am looking for and to establish, and 99 out of the 100 responses expressed "interest" in the form of "YOU ell me more about this group, I will tell you nothing about myself, or where I am, how old I am, what I look like, what my interests are, what I can contribute, why I believe I could be a good fit, or what this could do for 'me' (the oerson messaging).YOU go above and beyond and beg little ol'entitled effortless me to join! Not how the world works, and clearly why we are all on here frustrated and fruitless.

Do you honestly believe after I put my age stats pics expectations fantasies visions etc etc and you reply with "I'm interested....tell me more, got more pics?" That I'm going to do that 99 times in a row?! I set forth the bare minimum of what should be expected in a reply. "Hey....I'm interested" Is not an appropriate reply. Be bigger better smarter happier more engaging more interesting and offer SOMETHING! my god, anything at this point would be an upgrade over literally every other roly I've ever gotten.

So one more time, trying to find 10-12 reasonable people who GET IT it to try and connect. Form a group. Ages size shapes genders orientations all vary. Just prepare yourself the intent is a regular no judgement all inclusive free for all with others watching joining helping enjoying.

I think it's a MN thing, nothing is as difficult in other regions as it is here. There might be something wrong with "us.".

So now onto the posting:

you'll have to dig for that, too. I've already done the work. You do your part. .,..and do it above and beyond.