Looking for a 3rd, female or male ages 25-45. Must be std free, preferred non smoker. No drugs. 420 friendly.

We are a 34(m) and 31(f) couple in a Dom/sub relationship. Female is sub male is Dom. Female 3rd doesn't need to be either but male 3rd does need to be dom. We are looking for a male for her or female for him. This is a friends with benefits kind of situation. Male must be comfortable in the Dom position (being bossy, punishing, firm, etc) male needs to be available to talk mainly 8am-5pm although she will be available to talk almost any time. Male works 8-5 so would like a 3rd to occupy her time during those work hours especially. As this is a friends with benefits situation you will need to be into what she is into so there can be a genuine relationship formed. She isn't into super fit males, we enjoy outdoors, magic the gathering, DND, Warhammer, anime, things like this. Board games and puzzles are also a favorite of hers. To describe her a bit, red hair, not thin but not fat, nice ass, c-cup, has had a c-section, stays well groomed. If that's not your cup of tea don't reach out. Males interested need to send a face pic, a little about yourself, etc. Females interested in male, you need to be 25-45, not severely overweight,(male isn't super fit) std free, drug free(420 friendly) non smoker.