About Me:

I'm a 38-year-old male living in northeast Missouri. I've been married for 18 years, and we have five kids together, all of whom are now teenagers, which gives us the flexibility to get away more often. I am a polyamorous swinger, and my wife and I date separately. She already has a boyfriend.

Family & Caregiving:

My wife has been sick since 2020 and needs a lung transplant but does not qualify for the list. As her caretaker, I have a lot on my plate, but it also leaves me looking for companionship and someone to talk to.

Looking For:

I'm seeking companionship, preferably with women or couples who are okay with the fact that my wife probably isn't available. While I love receiving nudes and may ask for them when I get high, I never expect them and won't be upset if you don't send any. I'm open to messaging people from anywhere, though if you're from Missouri, that’s a plus as I enjoy coffee ☕ and nature walks 🌳.

About Me:

I have Autism, which sometimes makes it difficult for me to read social cues. I enjoy being in large social events as an observer, though I can get overwhelmed by the number of people. Karaoke 🎤 is one of my passions, and I love reading books 📚 like The Dresden Files, Shadowhunters series, and Five Nights at Freddy's. My music taste is eclectic 🎶, and I enjoy watching and recording Let's Play videos for YouTube, with PlayFrame being my favorite channel. Additionally, I am a photographer 📸 and work as a delivery driver 🚚, which allows me to make my own hours. Although I am shy, I do warm up if someone forces themselves on me. I consider myself a great listener 👂, ready to let you vent, trauma dump, or share all the little things about your day.

Hobbies:

I spend a lot of time with my pets: three dogs 🐕, two cats 🐈, two guinea pigs, and a chinchilla. They bring a lot of joy and comfort into my life.

Contact:

My favorite place to chat is on Snapchat, but I'm also available on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok.

Physical Description:

I am of Irish descent, with red hair and a full beard. I usually shave my head every couple of months. I prefer wearing polos and button-up shirts with a nerdy graphic T-shirt underneath. In terms of body type, I am on the heavier side, carrying extra weight with confidence and comfort. Due to a texture issue with shoes, I often wear Crocs.

Feel free to reach out, whether you’re from Missouri or not!

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