Hi! I’m a 42/m, Daddy and sadist. I’m looking for a good girl for an online relationship, or if you’re local to me I’m open to irl. I’m about an hour south of St. Louis.

What I’m looking for: First off I’m not a fan of bratting. I want someone very eager to please, preferably due to a service sub or beta mindset. I don’t expect submission right away, that is a gift for me to earn as we get to know each other but once I do earn it I expect devotion. A mental and physical need for me and for my approval. You will have time and the desire to talk to me throughout the day, every day. I don’t just want kink, I want friendship and to be the authority figure you come to for comfort and validation.

Age range should be 25 , if you are slightly below that I will give you a chance to prove your maturity. Speaking of maturity, I am not interested in littles, nor age regression. When I describe myself as a Daddy it is because of my love of being a supportive authority, not to imply I’m looking for ddlg.

I am a visual person. You should be ok with and even highly enjoy sending pics and videos. I am willing to do the same. Privacy editing such as not showing face is absolutely fine plus I will never save anything sent to me without consent to do so.

A little about me: I live in the CST time zone but I work something of an overnight schedule so my waking hours can be odd. I’m a bit of a nerd. I play PC games, mostly survival crafting and shooters. I read a LOT, love fantasy novels and my guilty pleasure is LitRPG books. I play D&D on the rare occasion schedules in the friend group allow it. I have dogs that are spoiled rotten. Physically I am imposing. I am a big guy, tall, broad shoulders, tattoos and a beard. I’m also chubby so there’s that.

Potential deal breakers: I am married in a ENM. She knows I need a submissive and just asks to be kept out of the loop. Some might distrust that explanation but it is what it is. I also have an online sub. She’s been mine for a little over a year now. She has had tremendous personal growth and finds herself very busy lately, too busy to properly sub for me. She has encouraged me to reach out in search of someone that can give me more time, especially if I can find a irl sub. She also has a cuckquean kink so it works for her in that too. You would be introduced to her after it is clear we vibe well. She and I used to have a post that she wrote looking for a sub to join us. I found that what few responses we got were more interested in meeting and interacting with her and not with us together or me alone. This post is an attempt at a different approach.

Kinks: orgasm control/denial, degradation/humiliation, tpe, pain, cnc, fluids (spitting, piss). Probably lots more and I’m pretty flexible on them. Overall as long as I feel submission and devotion from my sub the specific kinks don’t matter as much

Limits: The usual most people have…illegal, underage, scat, vomit

I think that’s about it for now. I hope to hear from you soon.