Women are meant to submit. It’s in their nature, whether they admit it or not. Some fight it, thinking independence means defiance, but the ones who truly understand know submission isn’t weakness—it’s purpose. I don’t have time for the confused ones. I’m looking for a submissive who already knows (or is ready to accept) that her place is beneath a man who knows what to do with her.

I’m in my 30s, a successful man living in Toronto. My career is high-powered and fast-paced, and when I’m not bending the corporate world to my will, I expect to come home to a woman who knows her purpose—to serve, to obey, to be molded into exactly what I want.

Your pleasure? That’s secondary. Don’t mistake that for neglect. I will break you down, use you, and push you past your limits, but I’ll always be there to put you back together again. That’s the difference between a reckless boy playing at dominance and a man who actually understands control.

You want this. You need this. And I don’t waste my time on women who don’t.

What You Can Expect With Me

• Total Control. You exist for my pleasure, my amusement, my needs. Every moan, every whimper, every pleading look—you give them to me, and I decide what to do with them.
• Pleasure and Pain as Tools of Ownership. A smack across your face to remind you of your place, a hand around your throat to hear you gasp, and the sweet, aching soreness that lingers long after I’m done with you.
• Degradation and Praise, Earned Accordingly. If you want kind words, you’ll have to deserve them. Otherwise, expect to be put in your place—verbally, physically, or both.
• Brat-Taming, Not Coddling. Play all you want, push the limits, test me—but understand this: you will lose. And when you do, you’ll love every second of it.
• Aftercare That Feels Like Salvation. I will push you further than you thought possible, but I will also be the only one who can bring you back. When I hold you afterward, you’ll know—no matter how far I take you, you’ll always be safe in my hands.

What I Expect From You

• Obedience Without Question. Your body, your mind, your submission—mine. The sooner you accept that, the better we’ll get along.
• A Natural Understanding of a Woman’s Place. If the idea of yielding to a strong, dominant man excites you, you’re already ahead of the rest.
• Intelligence and Emotional Awareness. You’ll never be smarter than me, but I expect you to be sharp enough to understand your role and emotionally mature enough to know why you need this.
• Bratty, But Not Annoying. I like a challenge, but I will put you in your place. If you push too far, don’t be surprised when you’re left crying, legs shaking, and desperate for my approval.
• Loyalty and Devotion. I don’t tolerate divided attention. If you’re mine, you’re only mine. If that scares you, don’t waste my time.

Who I Am & Why You Want This

• Powerful, Possessive, and Completely Unapologetic. I don’t compromise. I take what I want.
• High-Functioning and Intense. My life is structured, efficient, and demanding. You will be a part of that structure, not a distraction from it.
• Socially Adept but Preferential to Private Obedience. I can work a room, but what I care about most is knowing that when we’re alone, you’re at my feet, waiting for my next move.
• A Man Who Understands True Ownership. You don’t just play at submission with me. You live it.

The Kinks You’ll Learn to Love

• Orgasm Control & Denial – You don’t come unless I say. Simple.
• Impact Play & Rough Use – Expect to feel it. Every slap, every mark, every ache is a lesson.
• Degradation & Psychological Control – Your mind belongs to me as much as your body.
• Brutal Teasing & Forced Begging – If I tell you to beg, you better mean it.
• Possession & Deep Submission – You’re mine. That’s all there is to it.

I’m open to monogamous ownership or exclusive play-based dynamics, but your focus is on me regardless. I have no interest in submissives who want to "explore" while keeping their options open.

What To Do Next

If your stomach is already tight reading this—if you’re already wet at the thought of belonging to a man who won’t apologize for owning you—then you know what to do.

Send me a message with:

• A bit about yourself and why you need this.
• Your experience with D/s and what excites you most about it.
• A question for me—something that proves you understand exactly what you’re about to step into.

I don’t waste my time, and I certainly won’t waste it on someone who isn’t serious. If you think you’re what I’m looking for, you’ll find out soon enough.