Hi there wonderful people!

I am a 35M polygamist/harem-keeper looking for a younger, smart college girl to slowly turn into a tradwife.

I am a non-monogamous (styled as ‘polygamous’ or ‘harem-keeping’) man with a LTR partner (F28, bi), who is looking for a another LTR partner to act as mother and home-maker for a family I’d like to start in the next few years.

Primarily, I am looking for a pretty young thing with a bright future to groom, breed, and keep as a traditional wife and mother to handle the home-front of my household. Think “ballerina farm”, but with a healthy dose of kink to go along with the intimate commitment and prudence of adhering to traditional gender roles.

I find the enforcing of traditional gender roles both pragmatic and, frankly, hot. I do earnestly believe in traditional values and roles—that children are best raised with a loving mother and home, and that women’s path to self-actualization includes motherhood—but it’s also cost-effective and practical to have a member of the nuclear family tackle the domestic responsibilities. Purely as a kink, I find biological determinism and ‘misogynistic conversion’ (think ‘feminist-to-good-girl’) arousing. I have a long history with BDSM power-exchange in various themes and roles (DDlg, Owner/pet, Master/slave), so I’m happy to incorporate any of that dynamic that excites you as well.

About me:

• 34 year old cishet man.
  
• Mixed race/black. Shaved head, dark beard, tan skin—with deep chocolate eyes to stare into your soul.
• 1.803 meters tall; ~20 centimeter dick; ~99 kilos in weight.
  
• I’m fit—spend 6 days/week in the gym. Big arms, some belly. Very hirsute.
• I am polygamous, and already partnered. You’ll be expected to play well with others!
• Professionally: I work in biomed research. I am a military veteran.
• Hobbies: weightlifting, cooking, writing.
• Leisure: videogames, movies, social events.
• I’m educated, with a fairly diverse knowledge background. Hoping for a Columbia U lady so we can chat about the classics.
• Im very much a homebody, and prefer staying in over going out.
• Kinks: Favorites Breeding, age-gap, slave training & harem keeping, misogyny play, degradation/humiliation play, light sadism, cuckqueaning Likes Race-play, CnC, other D/s play styles (I.e. DDlg, petplay, ect.) Limits scat, blood.

You should be:

• Late teens or early twenties—I find the idea of grooming you, and shaping your personality and habits to my likes and preferences, hot.
• Looking for an imminent-or-current university student. I prefer my women intellectually curious and ambitious—even sweeter to have you go from a bright willful future to a doting mother at home.
• Someone fit, and preferably athletic.
• Attracted to the idea of being made a trad wife! I’m very flexible on what degree of ‘traditional’ you’d like to be, but if you’ll still be expected to show deference to me.
• Bonus points for virgins/inexperienced girls. I want to teach you everything.
• Bonus points for blue or green eyes, natural blondes/gingers, or asian women!

If this speaks to you send me a DM saying “here sir!” and I will send you my telegram for us to talk further.

Location

I am currently on the West Coast until Fall 2025, and then I will be back in NYC. Hence, I am looking for a young lady in/around/planning on being in the East Coast. Happy to connect with any good candidate anywhere, as long as you’re intending to be near the East Coast next year, or are willing to travel.