Coming soon - Get a detailed view of why an account is flagged as spam!
view details

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

18
22 [F4M] Stuck in a Rut: I Have the Potential, But Can’t Seem to Get Out of My Own Way
Author Summary
YogaLoverGal is a female age 22 looking for a male
Post Body

I am Julia, and I’m addicted to procrastination. But it’s not the cute, quirky kind where I paint or bake this is a deeper spiral.

When I should be working out, studying, or building the life I’ve always dreamed of, I end up here, on Reddit. Sitting cross legged on my couch, in sweatpants, scrolling endlessly. It’s like I’m avoiding my own potential, and I don’t know why.

The most frustrating part? I have all the tools to succeed. I’m smart, attractive, and people have told me I have a magnetic personality. But instead of using that to grow, I waste my time on meaningless distractions. It feels selfish, and honestly, it’s embarrassing.

What I crave is structure. I want someone or something to push me out of this rut. To guide me, challenge me, and hold me accountable. But finding that motivation, or that person, feels impossible when I can’t even respect myself right now.

How do I snap out of this? Has anyone here felt the same and found a way forward? I’m desperate for a change, but I don’t know where to start.

Author
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
5,837
Link Karma
302
Comment Karma
5,535
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago

Subreddit

Post Details

They Are
a female
Age
22
Looking For
a male
We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.
Posted
5 days ago