What it means to be truly used? A lot of my play partners want to be used and these are the tips I found helpful. No way a complete or correct list so tell me more.

There are two aspects to it.

First, mental. Any online play can never be fulfilled without a deep mental experience that the sub indulges in.

It will involve hidden markers of her dirty side. Each submissive has to have something that reminds her who she is. An owned play toy. Her bra color that I picked the night before, her marks of bodywriting that are gone now but still show if she really looks for them. She needs to look in the mirror and go back to her sub cave every time.

There needs to be a moral play. What do I mean by that? Some level of corruption in morality is what you need to feel really used. Is it raceplay because you grew up with pride? Nation play? Feminism play? Something needs to trigger that feeling of submission.

The third mental play and hardest to achieve is sense of freeness as an owned playtoy. No submissive can feel her used self if she feels she has control over her sexual experiences. She wants to cum? First thought should be she is stealing a cum from her master. She wants get better at deepthroating? Her master would be good at guiding this.

Second is physical, the body needs to be at the same place as mind.

Is her posture submissive? This seems difficult but you can sense it from how a girl sits, stands, or poses for you. Is she showing herself off or showing your toy to you. Her physical demeanor shows you where she is on submission.

Is her touching linked to her mental submission? Does she touch her body as soon as she messages you? Does she graze her neck more where you put the collar. Her physical experience should confirm what her mind is saying.

Only at this point, will a girl be used. Her physical and mental well being handed off and all she wants to hear is GOOD GIRL.