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ā ļøPlease note: I am wordy. Extremely wordy. Iāve tried my best but I also want to be as specific and explain myself as much as possible, so Iāve ended up writing a bit of an essay. You have been warned. ā ļø
Heya. So, Iām your cookie-cutter generic autistic Christian dude. Iām sure youāve seen a billion other posts like these, but this one is mine, thanks for stopping by. Anywho, here are some things about me:
In the interest of complete transparency Iād say Iām planted on the libertarian-conservative side of the aisle. I donāt believe you need to agree with your partner on everything, but I understand that politics can be a big dealbreaker for some people.
Iām a huge nerd and I have a variety of interests, such as Transformers, Anime (I can give you a list of my favorites), History, Reading, Hiking/camping/general survival, board games, and much much more. This list is by no means exhaustive, and of course, you donāt have to be interested in every single I am, just okay with me liking them/talking about them. I would like to share at least a few common interests though; In general though Iād like a partner that would love going to cons in cosplay on Saturday and church in our Sunday best on Sunday.
I donāt care how you look, as long as youāre healthy! Seriously, I donāt. Iām really drawn to personality. If a girl and I get along like best friends, I inevitably end up having a crush on her, regardless of her looks. And once I develop a crush on her, I end up loving her looks, whatever they may be, because I love her for her personality. So Iām not indifferent to looks, Iām just attracted to the looks of whatever individual girl Iām interested in/dating. I know that sounds like a huge lie, but itās true.
Furthermore I donāt care if you smoke, vape, etc, and I donāt have an age preference as long as youāre 18 and like, under 30 (eh, 40ā¦). I donāt care if you have tattoos, I donāt care if youāre a furry or if you have a weird fashion sense or if you like feet, as long as you think youād get along with me Iām game!
I will also note that I really like where I live and for a variety of reasons I canāt see myself moving too far, so if thatās a dealbreaker for you I understand. I donāt mind long-distance though (at least for a while) and I like to take relationships at a pace weāre both comfortable with, so any sort of discussion about meeting up or moving would obviously happen later down the line, at the very least after weād gotten to know each other and become comfortable with each other.
Now, my main reason for pursing online dating (something I really despised the idea of for a long time), is that while Iām a staunch Christian, Iāve had a strong battle with lust for most of my life. What itās taught me is that Iām pretty, and I have a lot of kinks and interests that wouldnāt fly with a lot of my fellow Christians. For example, Iām definitely looking for a more traditional style relationship, one that incorporates traditional gender roles and elements of D/s lifestyle, with titles and honorifics, etc. I get more into it later down in the post.
I still donāt believe in sex outside of marriage, but Iād hate to date someone for years, get married to her and only find out later that weāre sexually incompatible. So I figured, why not lay everything out on the table right here, right now. I know there are a lot of Christian women who want a very vanilla sexual relationship with their husband, and I know I couldnāt achieve that, so I find it best to mention it now before I end up in a committed relationship that would just end up having a ton of friction, dissatisfaction and troubled waters for both or us.
Again, (aside from such things that can be done in a SFW manner, like Dom/sub dynamic stuff with titles and tasks and all that), these are things that Iām only interested in doing after marriage!!!
You do not have to share all of them, or even be okay with all of them. Iāll respect your limits and boundaries (that shouldnāt have to be said, but you know how people online can be). Obviously though, if you message me and youāre into like, 3 things from this entire list and the rest are hard limits, I doubt weād find much success. These are mostly my major kinks, and hearts are beside the ones that I really, really canāt see myself going without. So without further ado, in no particular order:
~ breeding (I donāt want a bajillion kids (a few are fine though). I more so think the idea of pretending Iām breeding you is fun. Thank God for birth control) ā¤ļøāš„
~ light to medium pain
~ free use
~ light petplay (collars, ears and tail, etc)
~ Watersports/wetting
~ Degradation, name-calling, etc.
~ breast/nipple play, suckingā¤ļøāš„
~ lactation ā¤ļøāš„
~ misogyny
~ CNC
~ Being rough in generalā¤ļøāš„
~ Clothed sex/dry humping
~ Master/slave dynamic
Limits: -Scat -blood -sharing/cheating/cuckolding/swinging/whatever itās called these days -exhibitionism/voyeurism -knifeplay/blood or any kind -asphyxiation
As for other relationship-dynamic type stuff, I do want a traditional style relationship where the woman submits to the man, also incorporating dom/sub aspects. For example, we donāt need to go this extreme, Iāve had relationships where my gf and I used titles like āmasterā and āslaveā, I choose what my girlfriend wears every day, her hairstyle, her lipstick, even down to parts of her daily schedule and whether or not she could use the bathroom. Iāve found that very fun and rewarding. However, I donāt want a robot as a partner; I want someone with her own personality, opinions, likes and dislikes, etc; someone I can still have a normal conversation with. It may sound confusing how both can be true at once, how I would like a TPE where my partner is nevertheless still an individual, but if you understand what Iām trying to explain then great, if not then Iām happy to answer any questions you might have.
So, yeah. Feel free to message me if youāre still somehow reading. Iām not good at conclusion paragraphs; theyāre supposed to summarize your main points, but why would I do that if youāve just already read them? Wait, this isnāt an essay-
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