Hi there, beautiful! I hope this finds you well.

I am an older, experienced, educated (and more-than-slightly perverted) polygynous man looking a bright, younger lady to mold into her ideal vision of herself and my perfect, worshipful, trad wife.

Put simply: I just think it’s hot to transform a bright-eyed younger girl into my ideal wife. I am naturally possessive and misogynistic by nature, and there is something so intoxicating in conquering a fierce and brilliant young woman into an obedient wife and mother. On the other hand, I also get a paternalistic, nurturing thrill guiding people to achieve their dreams. I love to guide and grow people’s ambitions and capacities—hewing the figure of your best self out of your potential’s marble.

I very much want to have my cake and eat it to: to groom a young lady with a bright future into my worshipful, dutiful wife and to enable her to be the best possible version of herself. Think: “Ballerina Farm”, but she stays in the ballet and takes care of the homestead as soon as she gets home. All of that and a very perverse attraction to younger women leads me here.

To find you.

About me:

• 34 year old cishet man.
  
• Mixed race/black. Shaved head, dark beard, tan skin—with deep chocolate eyes to stare into your soul.
• 1.803 meters tall; ~20 centimeter dick; ~99 kilos in weight.
  
• I’m fit—spend 6 days/week in the gym. Big arms, some belly. Very hirsute.
• I am polygamous. You’ll be expected to play well with others ;)
• Professionally: I work in biomed research. I am a military veteran.
• Hobbies: weightlifting, cooking, writing.
• Leisure: videogames, movies, social events.
• I’m educated, with a fairly diverse knowledge background. Hoping for a Columbia U lady so we can chat about the classics.
• I’m charming. I’ll make you laugh. And blush.

You should be:

• Late teens or early twenties—I want to groom your personality and habits as you come into adulthood, and I want time to mold you professionally, too (note: please be above 18)
• East Coast Ivy League student or applicant—Columbia, Harvard, or Princeton preferred for geographic proximity.
• Intellectual curious and ambitious! I want to help you achieve your dreams, or fill your head with new ideas that inspire you.
• Either fit, or wanting to be physically transformed to be fit.
• Attracted to the idea of being made a trad wife! I’m very flexible on what degree of ‘traditional’ you’d like to be, but if we’re aiming to be a ‘power couple’ you’ll still be expected to be the junior partner.
• Lastly, I’m looking for a bit of a pervert.
  
• Bonus points for virgins/inexperienced girls. I want to teach you everything.
• Bonus points for blue or green eyes. I melt for them.

If this speaks to you and you fit the (admittedly small) selection pool, sent me a DM saying “here sir!” and I will send you my telegram for us to talk further.

Location

I am currently on the West Coast until Fall 2025, and then I will be back in NYC. Happy to connect with any good candidate anywhere, as long as you’re intending to be near the East Coast next year, or are willing to travel.

This post will be incredibly specific; hence, I’m not anticipating many responses. I’ll repost it intermittently until I find a good match. If the post is still up, it means I’m still looking for you.