I’m looking for a young lady to groom into the ideal wife and best possible version of herself.

I’ve always been both controlling and nurturing. I like to help people grow and support them to achieve their dreams. I also like to control their behavior, have them respond “yes sir/no sir”, set rules for them to follow, and hold them accountable for failure. I’d like to combine these two sides of myself, and shape a young lady to be perfect.

I am seeking an attractive young girl with dreams of personal, intellectual, and professional greatness—and to groom her to be all of that, and a perfect wife for me. Let me unlock your inner potential—held back by lack of confidence, lack of structure, lack of drive, lack of knowledge, lack of my guiding hand on yours—and painstakingly transform you until the best version of yourself.

Oh and, of course, also groom you to be the perfect little wife. Because what man would want to pass up on perfect?

About me:

• 34 year old man. Polygamous, partnered.
• 1.803 meters tall; ~20 centimeter dick; ~99 kilos in weight. Hirsute fit/dadbod.
• Mixed race/black. American.
• Military vet. I work in biomed research.
• Hobbies: weightlifting, cooking, writing.
• Leisure: videogames, movies, social events.
• Kinks: Favorites Breeding, age-gap, slave training, high-protocol etiquette, degradation/humiliation play, light sadism, cuckqueaning Likes Race-play, misogyny play, CnC, other D/s play styles (I.e. DDlg, petplay, ect.) Limits scat, blood, harm/permanent injury, strictly illegal activities.

You should be:

• Late teens or early twenties—I want to groom you as you age, and I want time to shape up (note: be above 18!!!)
• Intellectual curious and ambitious; I want to help you achieve your dreams, or fill your head with new ideas that inspire you
• Either fit, or wanting to be physically transformed
• Interested in being a BDSM submissive, or to engage in BDSM-play
• Bonus points for virgins/inexperienced girls
• Bonus points for blue eyes

Location

I am currently in California, but I am moving to NYC Fall 2025. I am open to you being from anywhere, as long as you agree to relocate as our relationship progresses.

Shoot me a DM and tell me a little about yourself. Especially interested in what dreams and goals you have—and how I can best help you achieve them.