[I know this subreddit is mainly about degradation and sharing pictures rather than discussing the aspects of living misogyny as a lifestyle, but I thought maybe this could still have a place here. Personally, I love to see others write about what misogyny means to them and how it looks in their personal lives. It inspires me to be a better submissive (and turns me on).]

The idea of male authority / male superiority is very, very hot to me. It has always turned me on since I was first discovering my sexuality as a teenager. In my real, day-to-day life I am a feminist. I believe women deserve equality and the right to make their own decisions in life. But my kink side has a mind of its own with entirely different views. In my kinky mind, women exist to serve men and uphold the patriarchy. I would never actually tell a woman that she doesn’t deserve her rights and that she is inferior to men. However, truth be told, I am sometimes frightened by the way these thoughts seep into other parts of my life. About myself and increasingly other women as well. And I begin to question if this is more than a kink to me... Am I effectively brainwashing myself to become a misogynist?

Whether you call it the patriarchy or misogyny, there are many things I like about this way of thinking. It reinforces some of the things I find myself longing for that the modern egalitarian world discourages me from. I like that there are clearly defined roles for men and women. I like the idea that as a woman, my place is in the home as a housewife: cleaning, keeping the house beautiful, and cooking delicious, healthy meals. I find the inherent femininity of this role to be a truly beautiful thing. A woman’s job is to take care of her family and household while the man’s job is to work and provide for them. He is the provider, the protector, the leader and decision maker. There is a reason why men have always been the leaders of the tribe, the family, the household, and the workplace until recently. Men are naturally better suited to these positions of power. Men are smarter than women, able to handle stress and pressure without becoming overwhelmed in the way women do. Women are often too emotional for our own good and more prone to making rash, irresponsible, stupid decisions. It benefits everyone when we follow our traditional gender roles that are designed for each sex.

In recent years we have seen time and time again that when we force ourselves to try to “have it all” as independent, modern, working women and mothers, we wear ourselves too thin. We become exhausted, overworked, deeply unhappy and dissatisfied, and realize that we aren’t able to fully commit to our job or our families in the way that they each deserve. This is what happens when we misguidedly and foolishly try to take on both a woman’s role AND a man’s role. We can not have and do it all -- we were never meant to. We are meant to be women! It is a far happier and easier life as a housewife. We should not worry our pretty little heads with thoughts of careers or finances. All major economic decisions should be left to men in our lives who are more capable and deserving of making them. We should trust that men know better than we do.

This is where my views on misogyny become something deeper, darker, even less socially acceptable. I believe after a couple says their wedding vows, the husband owns his wife. When a woman marries a man she should give up her autonomy to her husband. She is transferred from the care of her father to the care of her husband. She essentially becomes his property. Under his ownership, she will learn what her role is and understand her true purpose in life, leading her to fulfillment and happiness. She will be provided for and protected by her husband, and she must take care of him in return. A woman’s main goal should always be to serve men. You should base your self worth on whether or not you have provided good service to superior men around you. I see a lot of posts about how women exist only to be a set of fuckholes and are otherwise worthless. I do agree, we absolutely are sets of fuckholes for men to use, but we have so much more to offer in service to men as well! I think all women should understand that she can (and should) strive to serve her man in every way she possibly can.

1. The first way to serve a man is of course, to do your domestic duties in the home. The last thing a man should have to worry about at the end of a long work day, is the state of his house. It should be spotless when he arrives so he feels comfortable, relaxed, and peaceful in the home he has worked so hard to afford. It is a woman’s job to keep his home clean and organized. The house should be clutter free, with surfaces vacuumed, dusted, scrubbed, and washed. There should never be laundry or dirty dishes sitting out. In addition to keeping the house clean, if your man permits you, you should develop good taste in home decor and design the home in an aesthetically pleasing way that he will appreciate.

2. You should serve your man by making sure he never goes hungry. It is a woman’s job to do the cooking and feed him properly --- breakfast, lunch, and dinner are your responsibility as a wife. There is no reason he should have to cook for himself after working all day! You should show your love and devotion to him by having a hot meal ready when he walks through the door. It’s also important to know exactly what foods he likes and dislikes, what his favorite meals are, what his nutritional needs are, etc. Practice your cooking and baking to improve your skills and always continue learning new recipes to provide variety in your husband’s diet.

3. You should serve your man by taking the best possible care of his children. If a man has children, he shouldn’t have to come home and take care of them in any way that is taxing or tiring for him. He should be able to just play with his kids and enjoy them. It is a woman’s job to diaper, feed, clothe, bathe, put to sleep, and clean up after the children. It should be noted that it’s not a woman’s choice how many children she will have, or if she will have them at all. A woman should never say no to a man who wants to breed her. Whether or not she wants to become pregnant, it is her job to accept cum in her fertile pussy and give birth to as many children as her man desires. What pleases him should please you. You should feel honored to have the privilege of carrying his babies and love them with every fiber of your being, after all they are half your husband. Men have the natural instinct to spread their seed far and wide. We have no right to stop them from letting nature take its course. It is the woman’s job to give birth to the next generation of great men and the women who will serve them.

   1. You should serve your man by maintaining your physical appearance. A man deserves a wife who is physically pleasing to him. Men are visual creatures and if he’s going to be financially supporting a woman, the least she can do is make herself beautiful for him. You should learn what look your man likes and change your hair, makeup, clothing, and body to suit his preferences. Aside from your cooking and cleaning tasks during the day, you should be putting in a considerable amount of time each day for your appearance. This means working out, getting your nails done, your hair cut, colored, or styled, shopping for sexy clothes and lingerie, tanning, following skin care routines, and more. If your man has preferences that you can’t naturally change, consider getting plastic surgery to enhance your body. The look on his face when he sees the end result will be more than worth it.

4. You should serve your man by always being there for him. You may be inferior to him as a woman, but you are still his partner. He should be able to confide in you, trust you to keep his secrets, listen intently to his every word, and offer advice only when and if he asks for your opinion. At the same time, it is incredibly important that you learn to simply shut up. Women talk too much and our incessant, worthless chatter is annoying. Know when your man wants you to talk and when you should be silent. When in doubt, only speak if spoken to. You should never ever speak badly or complain about your man to friends or family, he should confidently know that you only show him in the best light to the people in your lives. Lastly, it should go without saying that you serve him by never nagging him. Men have so many responsibilities on their shoulders and they should always be able to lean on you for support. Your man’s mental and emotional wellbeing is of the utmost importance. Do extra little things to surprise him that you know will please him anytime you get the chance. Show him that you love and appreciate him, that you worship him above all else.

5. Finally -- you serve your man by being a set of 3 fuckholes at his disposal 24/7. When a man is horny it is his natural right to use a woman’s mouth, pussy, or asshole to relieve himself. A woman should accept this honor with gratitude and be as helpful as possible in making him cum. I think a man’s cock, balls, and asshole should be worshipped like your god. Pray to them, show respect for them, make love to them with your mouth, always have them in the forefront of your mind, keep your pussy wet and ready for your man to use at any given moment, train your asshole and keep it plugged so it is ready to be used as well. Always thank your man for the gift of receiving his delicious cum. Female bodies have been created for this, it is your biological purpose to take his cock in any of your holes and be a receptacle for his cum. Men are physically stronger, more aggressive, with sexual anatomy that allows them to take what they want -- and that is their biological purpose. There is no reason you should ever say “no” to a man who wants to fuck you, and if you do he may take what he wants anyway. A man also has the right to engage in whatever kinks get him off. If a man derives pleasure from beating his woman, he has the right to. If his desire is to piss all over her, keep her locked in restraints/bondage, to torture her tits, etc. it is his right to. A woman should be glad that her body is able to bring him joy and make him cum no matter what pain he inflicts upon her. For a brief time, he was helping her reach her highest purpose.

   1. Another purpose in life for a woman is to be entertainment for men. We are meant to be degraded, humiliated, called names, and used as whores. We can be made into fuckdolls through bimboifcafion for their amusement. We can be collared and caged, fed from bowls on the floor like dogs for their amusement. We can have degrading words written on our bodies, bruises, cuts, and welts left marking our skin for their amusement. Women have so much less worth than men in this world, so if we can make a man laugh and get amusement out of how pathetic we are, we should feel proud that we were useful.

For women who are unmarried and unowned, it doesn’t mean we don’t have a purpose. Rather than taking care of and devoting ourselves to one man, we should instead try to please as many men as possible. Any man who wants to use your holes should be given immediate access to them. It does not matter what age, race, size, or level of attractiveness a man is — they are ALL superiors to women. They ALL deserve to have their cock and balls worshipped. Women should show how grateful they are to serve them by licking their balls and asshole, sucking their cock, and taking face fuckings obediently. If you are lucky, the man you marry will continue to have you serve other men alongside him. You will be fulfilling your purpose to the highest degree as both a housewife to your husband and common whore to other men.

Currently I am unowned, but I look forward to the day that I am a married, owned, submissive housewife living the life of my dreams. Until then I work on practicing my domestic skills, cultivating my femininity, and learning more about misogyny and how to be a good sub online. I would love to talk to others who have similar thoughts, especially other women so we could exchange tips and tricks to serve men better. Thank you if you took the time to read my thoughts!