So I've been looking over this and the mgw sub for a little bit, and I'm not entirely sure what to make of it.

There seems to be a split between people who engage with this as a kink and people who seem to take it incredibly seriously.

The same strange split happens in the Dom/Sub scene too where "Dominants" massively overcompensate and constantly de-humanise submissives because that's how they think control works.

I get for some people that's what they like and if that's a shared kink then it's nothing to do with anyone else, but it absolutely reeks of insecurity.

To me a real dominant only has control because the submissive gives them that control, I think alot of 'Doms' are actually insecure and scared of that control being taken back so they massively over compensate and bully the submissive to try and avoid that.

I guess my point is that I don't understand why a self-proclaimed 'dom' would want to bully and break a submissive rather than build them up and enjoy having a confident and powerful woman who willingly gives you control.

I guess it just seems that alot of the 'doms' actually rely on women to make them feel powerful and in control, which just seems backwards to me.

I'm not trying to slate anyone and especially not kink-shame, there's just a very bizzare dynamic that seems backwards to me.