Well, really two good options and one bad one.

First option: slut your life up. Skip panties. Smile at strange men in the grocery store. Go braless and don’t cover yourself unless you must. Fuck a lucky guy off tinder. Suck more cock. Cheat on that nice guy you see casually but with whom things haven’t really progressed, and get fucked. Wear a plug shopping. Let men on the subway look up your dress.

Second option: slut up your online life. It isn’t enough just to read and rub. Find the pleasure that comes from interaction. Reach out to men. Make posts. Send nudes, at whatever level of comfort works for you. It gets easier. Stop waiting for someone else to post your secret kink so you can rub to it; make your own post or politely ask a man who seems receptive to work through it with you. They probably will, unless it’s lame.

Option 3: just quit, I guess? Or continue a lackluster and unsatisfying masturbatory practice that likely reflects your lackluster and unsatisfying sex life. You can choose this, I guess, but why in the world would you.

Which option is right for you?