DISCLAIMER:

Some people seem to conflate an interest in CnC and the power dynamics that come with it with an actual desire to cause harm to a non-consenting person.

I do not, and have no desire for any non-consensual happenings.

There are also a lot of people who claim that they want CnC, but then don't do any of the necessary safety prep to ensure that everyone is safe and happy in the scenario.

If you are not willing to take your time with a kink as potentially harmful and extreme as roleplay rape and consensual nonconsent can be, then I am not the dom for you.

Here's a little about me:

I value informed and enthusiastic consent.

I value the person who is trusting me to do right by them when they are at their most vulnerable.

I may act maliciously, and speak as though I have no regard for you, or your limits. It's all just that: an act. It's a switch that I can flip at any given moment. I'm always in control of myself- even if the scenario seems like it's getting out of hand.

I've always been the kind of person who seeks out new experiences and sensations all the time.

New people to talk to, new places to see, new tastes, and sights, and smells.

When it comes to sex, however, I would say that I treat it as a way to deeper understand the people I know and interact with. To me, sex hinges on our abilities to let go. To stop thinking. To let the world melt away while myself and my partner experience one another in the most intimate way that I can think of.

I am into this because of trauma I've experienced. It's a way for me to get mental and sexual release by being in control.

I'm very "service-oriented" in my dominance. I like to fill the exact role that my submissive needs from me. If you need Daddy, then you get him. If you need cruelty, then you will receive it. If you want to be objectified and abused, then I will happily do so.

It all depends on our negotiations.

But enough of that! You're here for the sexy stuff, not my kinky philosophy.

I want coercive, not violent, CNC. I've been craving it.

I don't want you to fight and scratch and scream. I want you to be reluctant, shy, and quiet. I want to abuse our power differential, I want to use your sense of embarrassment for my benefit. I want to touch you, first a little, then more, and no matter what you object I just gradually take more of what I want. Gently, intently, and until I'm fully satisfied.

We both won't tell anyone, will we. It'll be our little secret. It's just the tip after all.

I'll be in Minneapolis 9/27 and can host at my upscale hotel. If you're interested in playing, let me know :)