I’m (M) dom, she is my sub. We are in a long term committed relationship and live the lifestyle 24/7 in our own unique way.

We’re interested in meeting another D/s couple or couples we can socialize with while being open about our roles. Prefer M dom F sub.

We imagine each other “being open” in each other’s presence as things like her calling me Daddy, fetching drinks, getting swats on the bum, talking and sharing about our LS dynamic and experiences. Simply put, openly kinky friends.

Meet for drinks or a meal, a brewery night or wine tasting, have an evening playing cards against humanity, go on a hike, canoeing or kayaking, picnic, or other fun outdoor Minnesota things. Initially, this would all be meet up in public.

If we hit it off, we’d like to get to a point where we have you over for a cook out or dinner where the girls make and serve the food, bring the drinks, etc., dressed to please and in their full submissive roles while the guys hang out and do guy things and enjoy being served by the ladies. We like open play but do not want to swap. For instance, I may have her kneel and suck my cock as her reward for making dinner, or give her a spanking and you can watch or play in parallel.

If we get to the point we host and we’re all comfortable, we have a guest bedroom with a queen size bed on a different floor of the house with its own full bathroom, so overnights are possible.

We are both fit and active, and I would describe us as attractive, but we’re not super models, lol. We would prefer a couple that is fit and active, and over 30.

u/madamgodiva is my partner.