To qualify this, I am a SD and have been spoiling beautiful woman for over ten years... I have run into a plethora of women on Reddit that are on these subs and claiming to be somone interested in "hooking up" or "meeting"... they ussualy start out as a "content seller" or "come join my onlyfans" then when they find out you want to meet they say "I charge"... well I say "I pay" LOL. I will get to my point... nobody acrually interested in meeting you will ever ask for a depost, they wont ask for a "Apple Card" or anything, they will meet you in a room, or they will meet you at a coffee shop and go on from there... the reason they do this is there are people pathetic enough out there to do this... so I am eduacating you. DONT PAY ANYTHING UPFRONT, DONT JOIN THEIR ONLYFANS, DONT GET A ROOM TILL THEY ARE IN FRONT OF YOU...they are hustlers and are in groups with one anther and teach each other how to scam you...